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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

True definition of love and experiencing love.

LOVE: Life of Volition Emotion.
Love is felt and can not be seen or touched, just like there were invisible lines stretched between my spirit and the spirit of others. You taste love that is emotional. Can you smell love? Can we hear the heartbeat of love, it sounds like a drumbeat in the heart of the victim.
Love is beautiful. Love is something like the clouds that were in the sky before the sun came out. Love dwells in the heart but explodes physically through expression it manifests.

Note: love given to another person must first be given to God.

According to Scripture: "But now faith, hope, love abides these three; but the greatest of these is love, 1corin 13:13.
It is much more than a fleeting emotion. Love is a decision that we consciously make each day, and its presence is revealed in how we treat our spouses and others. When we love them we choose to do what's best for them.

Love is unconditional primary example of this kind of love is the Love of God.
Love is patient, love is kind. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love is a strong thing. Though love at times is act of involuntary feeling, you don't force it out. It comes when you can't stop it. Have you ever felt special thing for someone yet you couldn't tell how and why you feel that same way.

Love is most important element and it's the foundation of the relationship, it may be with your life mate or friend.
Though today we use the word love abusively. We may love our pets but that's different than loving your mate(spouse). You can love anything but definitely that's not the love we are talking about.

Learning more about this word "love" will help us better understand how these relationships often starts out like any other emotion, but then the progress to the point where both people desire a lifetime commitment together. Don't still forget that it doesn't work out necessarily to lifetime because of the saying that, 'love is not the basis for marriage but certainly marriage is the basis for love.

Love is more than feeling, and we all know from past experiences that feeling "in love" can be misleading and often very fickle. today the feeling is here,  and tomorrow it's gone.

Scriptural definition of love 1corin. 13:4-7 and in fact it is used in occasions both religious and nonreligious;
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not self seeking, it is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres(NIV)-

There are three types of love: Eros, "or erotic love" it is driven by our physical attraction to another individual, we feel erotic desire toward the person. Funniest thing is that this type of love can arrive quickly and has a very strong appeal. Although young love is usually this type.

The second type of scriptural love is "philo" referred to as brotherly love. This type of love is the one you date with a friend. It comes about after spending a great deal of time with someone. Though, I believe that's why many marriage counselors advise of one year courtship before marriage.
It's also true that married love is healthiest and strongest once it sprang up from friendship relationship. That's one of the purposes of dating. We get a chance to truly know the one we are going out with. Though this love is extremely important in finding your life partner.

You can extend philo to your neighbour, fellow worker etc. To be led to this type of love you have know that the feeling is unlike erotic, based on physical attraction. Philo is developed as a person's character traits and interests become known by you and you value those traits. Male tends to go from eros love to philo love but females often develop philo first and then go to eros love.

The third is "Agape": this love actively seeks to do the  right thing for and meet the needs of the loved person. Agape sacrifices personal feelings and needs to meet the needs of his spouse, this is in case of partners. In agape we willingly give up our rights, demands, desires just to fulfill our partners.

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