In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first
She uses her beguiling beauty as a weapon on men; with her alluring attraction, she misleads men either deliberately or inadvertently. She tells him she loves him, yet she keeps another. "she has always told me that she has a boyfriend, yet she is dating me also, she is always asking me what I want from her," Ogbo complains. That is corrosive in tone and to the ears.
It is quite obnoxious and repugnant for some women who don't know what they want. He found out that she is
double dating and because he loves her, he still has to share her with the other guy. His only problem was that he doesn't know if she loves him as much as he does. But yet another problem arises.
Ogbo finds it difficult to detect the difference between love and lust and between love and infatuation. "Ogo smiles at me wherever she wants something from me," he complains to a his counsellor. "A girl can't love a man and yet keeps another likewise a man," says the counsellor as she continues, "the difference between love and lust is that, love has much to do with emotions, not just feeling but what (sacrifice) you can do for it or because of it, because there are some actions you can take when you are in love which could be unimaginable.
Love has to do with warm attention or devotion. At times love is accompanied by deep feelings of erotic desire and attraction. It is still positive emotions and affection. Love is to be enamored," the counsellor explains. See more " true definition of love"
"to know when you lust, lust has a lot to do with a strong urge, self indulgent and erotic desire. It is usually having a craving, appetite or great desire. Lust is of amorous overture. So you see as love and lust are two different words so are they two different things and meanings, and everyone must know when he or she is feeling either of them," the counsellor says.
"when it comes to love and infatuation, they are quite different; like we already know what love is, we should also know that, love is more than just feeling while infatuation has to do with admiration. Infatuation is temporary love, extravagant passion, short-lived passion. Infatuation is never strong like love. It is so temporal that it wriggles like a wave," the counsellor explains.
Ogbo began to evaluate to know which one he has for Ogo. He found out that he truly loves her but she is the one playing with his love for her. Probably she is there to extort money from his pocket, she shouldn't be the person to ask me what I want from her, rather she should be in the right position to tell me what she is doing with him.
Because she can't serve two masters, it's either she loves Ogbo or the other. It high time people stopped deceiving themselves "I mean double dating? Which reasonable and responsible girl does that?" "I wouldn't want to mince words, let me advice you, don't love for sex or beauty because physical appearance fails and fades away, or lust after a woman because she is dangerously seductive as if she was Delilah; love for love, because love lasts for decades. Always look out for steadfast people, because steadfastness is priceless.
Again, this is your personal task, before you deposit all your love for your partner, make sure you critically analyze their love bank for you. Because for those who love, time is eternal so you bring out time to make a heart research and physical appraisal..."
You can't receive the caustic expression and disregard from someone yet you continue to invest your emotions and passion for those who don't value it-
It is just like pouring water into a basket. Don't take people as a priority when you are only an option for them.
Like Ogbo complains that Ogo smiles at him whenever she has demands it's crystal clear that she is fake. But I tell you any woman who adores you, desires to be with you, even when you have nothing left and when you can't offer material things to her she still sticks to you; always clings on to your arms- that's sincere love from a virtuous woman.
It is quite obnoxious and repugnant for some women who don't know what they want. He found out that she is
double dating and because he loves her, he still has to share her with the other guy. His only problem was that he doesn't know if she loves him as much as he does. But yet another problem arises.
Ogbo finds it difficult to detect the difference between love and lust and between love and infatuation. "Ogo smiles at me wherever she wants something from me," he complains to a his counsellor. "A girl can't love a man and yet keeps another likewise a man," says the counsellor as she continues, "the difference between love and lust is that, love has much to do with emotions, not just feeling but what (sacrifice) you can do for it or because of it, because there are some actions you can take when you are in love which could be unimaginable.
Love has to do with warm attention or devotion. At times love is accompanied by deep feelings of erotic desire and attraction. It is still positive emotions and affection. Love is to be enamored," the counsellor explains. See more " true definition of love"
"to know when you lust, lust has a lot to do with a strong urge, self indulgent and erotic desire. It is usually having a craving, appetite or great desire. Lust is of amorous overture. So you see as love and lust are two different words so are they two different things and meanings, and everyone must know when he or she is feeling either of them," the counsellor says.
"when it comes to love and infatuation, they are quite different; like we already know what love is, we should also know that, love is more than just feeling while infatuation has to do with admiration. Infatuation is temporary love, extravagant passion, short-lived passion. Infatuation is never strong like love. It is so temporal that it wriggles like a wave," the counsellor explains.
Ogbo began to evaluate to know which one he has for Ogo. He found out that he truly loves her but she is the one playing with his love for her. Probably she is there to extort money from his pocket, she shouldn't be the person to ask me what I want from her, rather she should be in the right position to tell me what she is doing with him.
Because she can't serve two masters, it's either she loves Ogbo or the other. It high time people stopped deceiving themselves "I mean double dating? Which reasonable and responsible girl does that?" "I wouldn't want to mince words, let me advice you, don't love for sex or beauty because physical appearance fails and fades away, or lust after a woman because she is dangerously seductive as if she was Delilah; love for love, because love lasts for decades. Always look out for steadfast people, because steadfastness is priceless.
Again, this is your personal task, before you deposit all your love for your partner, make sure you critically analyze their love bank for you. Because for those who love, time is eternal so you bring out time to make a heart research and physical appraisal..."
You can't receive the caustic expression and disregard from someone yet you continue to invest your emotions and passion for those who don't value it-
It is just like pouring water into a basket. Don't take people as a priority when you are only an option for them.
Like Ogbo complains that Ogo smiles at him whenever she has demands it's crystal clear that she is fake. But I tell you any woman who adores you, desires to be with you, even when you have nothing left and when you can't offer material things to her she still sticks to you; always clings on to your arms- that's sincere love from a virtuous woman.
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