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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Children, future leaders

Children, future leaders, not by words but what determines it, is how disciplined you are as a child.
No wonder our fate as children lies in the hands of our parents, they determine our future, make or mar it. No wonder the scripture also says, train up a child in the way he should go, so that when he grows he will not depart from it.

But, you can't desire for your child to be disciplined when you have not disciplined yourself. For once let's practice what we preach, because the
way a man makes his bed so shall he lie on it.

The meaning of CHILD:
C= CONFIDENCE
H= HIGH STANDARD
I= INTELLECTUAL MIND
L= LIGHT
D= DISTINGUISHED

C=CONFIDENCE:
Every good parents have this feeling of trust in their child. They are always free from doubt, whenever they look at their child they have strong mind/feeling that there is hope for the future.

H=HIGH STANDARD:
Every child is created with high standard, every child is highly established and widely recognized as a model, authority; moreover they are excellent in nature.

I=INTELLECTUAL MIND:
I can boldly tell you that every child has intellectual mind and until they break the intellectual mold, they will always remain a child ever in grey hair- this simply means that it's they hand you bring up a child with that will determine how far or how limit he will go in life. Someone must be there to mold the intellectual quotient.

L= LIGHT:
A child is a light and any family with a child always feel light around about.

D=DISTINGUISHED:
Every child is unique and have special way of doing things with special quality and outstanding appearance and behaviour, he does unimaginable things, always with crystal heart.

What kind of life do you live? is your lifestyle worth your child to emulate?
Do you live a useless lifestyle and expect your child to be a saint? Remember the saying, "a snake must give birth to a snake. What you sow  (invest) in your child is what will sprout forth.

Try and do some silly or nasty thing in their presence thinking they didn't notice and wait for like couple of minutes not even a day passes, watch your child display it right before your eyes. You will act surprised like, "I didn't anticipate this character from my child." Parents should be careful with the kind of life and attitude they put up before the eyes of their child.

A child is like an egg, when you carelessly train him he gets crush. Also remember that you are sparing the rod and spoiling the child when you always want to make your child happy, you accept every good and bad decision he takes. 

Every child is sensitive this days no doubt, as people will always give credit to modernization and same time hold it responsible as being the eye opener to their child, " leave them, it's children of jet age,  new millennium children, digital world children, civilized world, allow them to join the trend," most parents always encourage and praise their deviating children. See the effect "Sugar daddy"

Children are intelligent as we discussed the I=Intellectual mind; doing incredible things. Their sound mind is very calculative, they are endowed with hottest brain making them smarter than ever, that you, an adult will count yourself unfortunate to compete with a child in all unforeseen ramification of life.

Scripturally, Your child is the only asset you can go to heaven with.
Children are the heritage of the Lord and the reward from the Lord.
It is very easy and cheaper to train up a child than to repair men prov. 22Vs3-6.
For your child to come out to limelight, you must sacrifice-teach your child good moral, a well groomed child is the future leader.

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