How To Become A Positive Influence

Positive influencers understand this need for a sense of belonging and do things that make people feel included. Parents make sure their children feel like important members of the family. Spouses make the person whom they are married feel like a cherished equal partner. And bosses let their employees know that they are value members of the team. Good leaders are particularly talented at making their follower feel they belong.

Now you have to know how important
it is that belonging is one of the most human needs. When people feel isolated and excluded from a sense of communion with others, they suffer. Meanwhile, as an influencer you have to avail the opportunity if actually you desire to be a better nurturer of people, develop in other people's mind-set.

Always make people feel significant; Perspective: for most people, it's not what they are that holds them back. It's what they think they are not.

Feeling of significance: when you nurture people and add value to them without expecting anything in return, they feel significant. They realize they are valued, that they matter to others.

Hope: hope is the greatest gift you can give others as the result of nurturing, because even if their sense of self is weak and they fail to see their own significance they still have a reason to keep trying and striving to reach their potential in the future.

Note: you must keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions, they are nothing but discouraging elements who are ever ready to pull you down the drain at every possible means and they end up making you feel weak in your pursuit of great vision, small people are fond of doing that, but great people make you feel that you too can become great.

Another thing you have to find out is,

how do most people feel when they are around you?
Do they feel small and insignificant, or do they believe in themselves and have hope about what they can become?

The power of faith: having faith in people; difficulties seldom defeat people; lack of faith in themselves, usually does it. While most will do anything to live up to your faith in them because faith is believe in action.

Again, believing in people before they have proved themselves is the key to motivating people to reach their potential. You can do this by;

Listing their past successes.

Instill confidence when they fail.

Experience some wins together.

Visualize their future success

Finally, expect a new level of living.

Another most important is; 

To help people believe they can achieve victory, put them in a position to experience small sucesses.

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