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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Does everyone have influence?

Influence doesn't come to us instantaneously. It grows by stages. 
Everyone has influence. This list is created almost at random, selecting well-known people as well as ones from our lives such as a politician, like president of United States. We have other people of influence like Madonna and other great entertainers who virtually influence an entire generation of people in one or more cultures.

You could just as easily do the same thing. We did it to make a point:
Everyone is an influencer of other people. It doesn't matter who you are or what your occupation is. Talking about John Wesley, the Sunday school teacher who instructed John and other boys, touches their lives and indirectly influences all the people those boys grow up to influence.

Meanwhile, you don't have to be in a high-profile occupation to be a person of influence. In fact, if your life in any way connects with other people, you are an influencer. Everything you do at home, at church, in your job or any place you find yourself has an impact on the lives of others—that is why you have to act in positive ways. Every man is a hero and an oracle to somebody, and to that person, whatever he says has an enhanced value. 

Once you have the desire to be successful or to make a positive impact on your world, you need to become a person of influence. Because without influence there is no success. Whatever it's you are, be the best you can be to build a strong team of influencers by influencing them. Let's start from home, if you want to build a strong, healthy family. You have to be able to influence your children positively. No matter what your goals are in life or what you want to accomplish, you can achieve them faster, you can be more effective, and the contribution you make can be longer lasting if you learn how to "become a person of influence".

Do you know that your influence is not equal with all people?
Influence is a curious thing. Even though we have an impact on nearly everyone around us, our level of influence is not the same with everyone. To see this principle in action, try ordering your best friend's dog the next time you visit. 

Perhaps you have not thought about it, but you probably know instinctively which people you have great impact with and which ones you don't. For instance, think of people you work with. When you present an idea or make a suggestion to them, do they all respond in the same way? Of course NO. One person may think that all your ideas inspired. Another may view what you say with doubt and disbelief. It is clear that you can identify which one you have the influence with. 

Yet that same skeptical person may love every single idea presented by your boss or one of your colleagues. That just shows your influence with him or her may not be as strong as that of someone else. In your home, if you are married and have two children, think about how they interact with you. One child may respond especially well to you, while another does better with your spouse. It's a matter of which parent has the greater influence with the child.

Meanwhile, once you start paying closer attention to people's responses to yourself and others, you will see that people respond to one another according to their level of influence. And you will quickly recognize how much influence you have with various people in your life.


Expect more on "you and influence"

Click; "Do you know that your influence is either positive or negative"

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