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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

What is relationship really about?

What is this world actually turning into? What is our youth doing?
What kind of jet age is that one?
If a youth is living a useless life he will call it modernization, huh?
It is the trend, who told you?
Our youth are actually going astray in the name of modernization, we are deviating in oblivion. God help us.

I could remember what my coursemate told me sometime ago when we were in school---
It was first semester in 300 level. I was
very busy trying to rebirth the youth program i was organizing
"Dear, this your program is motivating and inspiring, I like people with such sense of humane. I love humanitarian services, I will be a member,"Vincent said.
"that is so thoughtful of you. You are welcome, " I replied.

Few days later, Vincent started chatting me up on social media platforms.
" sweetheart, I would like us to be very good friend," he said.
"we are friends already," I replied whereas i know exactly where he was driving at.
Vincent was good looking with good body stature. He actually told me he wanted us to be in a relationship where I would be visiting him in their hostel, that we needed to be very close to each other and bla bla bla.
"what?" I lamented. "What sort of a joke is this?" I was so mad at his statement. Actually I said to myself, learning how to scare dubious guys away is the beginning of wisdom to every responsible girl.

"Vincent what if I got pregnant along the line, what will possibly happen to us," I asked.
"you will abort it of course," he foolishly said. I froze instantly. What a world! I didnt know what to do than to drop one word with him, "you are such a player but you just said you love me and now you talk about abortion? Is that the kind of future you wish for me of all people? Of what use is my program? What then will i preach to my fellow youths?" I scorned him politely and from that day on, he respects me the more.

What am I saying? You are a mirror to the world. We the youths misconcept relationship. Relationship is not all about satisfaction of eros! Come on be smart for once.
Never enter into erotic relationship because you want to belong, you want to be among what is happening or you want to please your friends so that they can call you a big girl or a big guy. Come on, where is platonic relationship? Don't you know about that anymore?
It is now crystal clear that out of 100% of girls today, it is only 1% that can be found virgins.

What is our world turning into, is there nothing like "pride of a woman" anymore? Hey, my fellow youths that we are in the computer age does not mean we are to live the life of the Soldom and Gomorah. It is time we stopped deceiving ourselves!


Your opinion on this please:
  • Is there any truth in what I just said?
  • Is there need for a change in our attitude and lifestyle?
  • Was that the right thing to do by scaring Vincent away. I need someone to talk to me, please...


Please drop your comment, advice and observation...









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