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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

How you can support your followers

Publicly show your confidence in people when you want to transfer your authority to the people you empower. You need to tell them that you believe in them and you have to do it publicly. One thing you must know is that public recognition lets them know how you believe they will succeed. However, it also lets the other people that they are working with to know that they have your support and with the assurance that your authority backs them up. This is a tangible way of sharing your

Don't give in to these ten failure statements

1. I can't do it 2. I will do it later 3. Let it be what will be will be 4. It is not my time 5. I don't have the luck 6. I can't help myself 7. When the time comes I will do it 8. People is against me, I know people will mock and laugh at me if I failed. 9. I can't stand the challenge 10. I don't have confidence Note: in all of this self love conquers. If you love yourself you can do all things with Him

What you should do with your stress

Have you ever wondered why you always think of how people hurt you? Why you easily remember people's wrong? It is because you use your sacred time for irrelevant thoughts. When you're alone, especially when you think the world is against you and people always find faults in you. You only need to examine yourself. Always follow this steps to conquer the situation. Instead of self revenge, resentment or evil thoughts that may hurt you at the end. Instead of wasting the precious time languishing in pain and regrets.  Step 1 Press your hand on your chest. Calm your nerves Give a wide breath Think of the good things that have happened in your life. Bow down your head in reminiscence of your past glory Have a deep flashback. Don't consider giving up. Step 2 How do you feel? You have a reason to live again? You have a reason to make a better life for yourself? No matter what happens, no matter how bad and unfair others treat you, no matter you give them love and they give you ...

Ten new year's resolution points

Dear Christmas: How have you been? How has the celebration been? I understand how you imposed stress on people this season. It is just remaining few days to crossover to 2020. My aim of writing you this letter is to tell you how far the new year resolution would be. Some people sacrificed lives to get money to celebrate this Christmas. They forgot that this Christmas celebration is just one week. 25th December is the

Responsibility before bold step

Success is all about responsible and being responsible is all about taking responsibility. Taking responsibility is not working because others are working but working with a purpose. Doing because others are doing is simply to please others but doing with focus and intention to impact in others and fulfil your purpose is what makes you a great and ambitious person. Following others' footstep doesn't make you unique rather it makes you

Marriage weaknesses

The man keeps late nights He doesn't take her out He is very ashamed to walk in the street with her He doesn't give her money for her up-keep or care about her welfare No love, affection No rose flower under the pillow, no love messages from work to her They don't fly a kite together She doesn't make his bed She doesn't cook for him The maid cooks and serves him dinner She faces the other way while he faces

Causes of divorce

Lack of understanding see also , " Poor understanding ": Poor understanding in marriage between the spouses goes a long way to increase the rate of misunderstanding that creates a serious loophole that affects a marriage not to stand and or being effective and fruitful. Domestic violence see also , " What is domestic violence? " This is one the things that causes problem in a marriage. Some women feel hurt when a man hit them. They feel

Early signs of divorce

What is divorce?  Divorce is the result of absence of marriage incentives and motivators. Such incentives as flavour and aroma of marriage which when found wanting cause marriage to lose its flavour and salty taste. Motivators such as " understanding and loyalty ". What is marriage? Marriage is the flavour of life. Just like a tree gives shade, same does marriage shade us. Any woman who is not married is without a shade, because the man is her protector and the woman is a coverage. Likewise any

Brotherhood a short story

"I need your help," Nkem said. "I have no dime on me right now, I'm yet to receive my wage," Nkem further explained. The phone dropped on her ear. She rang the phone again. He busied the call. She tried reaching him it was "the number you are calling is not reachable please try again later or you can drop a voice message," was what she heard. She kept dialing his number, suddenly, "hello! hello!! hello!!! I can't hear you. What are you saying," he dropped the