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Causes of divorce


Poor understanding in marriage between the spouses goes a long way to increase the rate of misunderstanding that creates a serious loophole that affects a marriage not to stand and or being effective and fruitful.

  • Domestic violence see also, "What is domestic violence?" This is one the things that causes problem in a marriage. Some women feel hurt when a man hit them. They feel
uncomfortable even in the man's arms once he starts hitting her. They see it has become a routine and the  woman sees it as a habit of the man. She would become dumb each time they stay together, the woman would always be scared of him not feeling at ease. That one wouldn't want to ask her what it feels like to be struck by hurting words. She would be on the verge of tears all the time.


  • Cheating:
A man who cheats never stops having problem with his wife. This is because women need your maximum care and affection. Once a man starts sharing it a woman knows. She knows when her man shares the love meant for her with another. When you didn't do or show them they are invaluable they wouldn't be happy. Really! This would be a criteria for her to cheat after all because she believes he  is seeing some woman out there. This pushes marriage to the wall and mud it. When the man finds out he would seek to divorce her with immediate effect.

  • Negligence of duty: when a man fails to perform his duty. He didn't carry his duty out, the marriage would definitely crumble. Likewise the woman, once she is unable to carry out her supposed duty in the home, the man would have no choice than to be forced to nullify the marriage.

  • Lack of care, love and affection:
This is the major cause. These care, love and affection have been the ball of the family if it weren't hitting or if any of the spouses withdrew from giving and show them to the right, there would be clash.


  • Gender inequality: this is one of the reasons why women have been fighting for gender equality. Most men would want to treat the woman with unreserved respect. They would talk to their wife as if she was one slut or one night stand. This doesn't augur well for women. Because they know they are weaker vessels they wouldn't want a man make them look that weaker. Women love men who would cherish and respect them even in their worthless state and attitude.

At a certain point she wouldn't want to condole the man's embarrassment and consistent yelling at her, they would resort to divorce. This raise when the said existing love fades out in marriage.

"Why divorce?"


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