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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first
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Early signs of divorce

What is divorce? 

Divorce is the result of absence of marriage incentives and motivators. Such incentives as flavour and aroma of marriage which when found wanting cause marriage to lose its flavour and salty taste. Motivators such as "understanding and loyalty". What is marriage? Marriage is the flavour of life. Just like a tree gives shade, same does marriage shade us. Any woman who is not married is without a shade, because the man is her protector and the woman is a coverage. Likewise any
man who has no wife, something is missing—the woman—his treasure and flavour. A man without a woman by his side is incomplete. It will be like a tree without branches. A woman without a man is like branch without stem and root.


Every aspect of the tree is needed for a tree to stand as a real tree. Just like the head cannot be without the neck and the neck is useless without the head, so is man and woman respectively.


The aroma of marriage is Peace. A marriage that has no aroma loosens up quickly. You blend peace and love. to get a working marriage. Marriage failure to work as marriage is caused by lack of peace and love hence divorce sets in.

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