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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Marriage weaknesses

  • The man keeps late nights
  • He doesn't take her out
  • He is very ashamed to walk in the street with her
  • He doesn't give her money for her up-keep or care about her welfare
  • No love, affection
  • No rose flower under the pillow, no love messages from work to her
  • They don't fly a kite together



  • She doesn't make his bed
  • She doesn't cook for him
  • The maid cooks and serves him dinner
  • She faces the other way while he faces the other way
  • She doesn't treat him with respect
  • She talks to him as she wants
  • She snobs him all times.
  • No sign of loving him
  • Aggressive attitude all times
  • Indisposed mind and mood whenever he returns
  • Everything about him irritates her. At times butterflies fly in her stomach at mere glance or eye contact with him
  • Love fades away in her eyes. No exceptional moments with him again.

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           "Causes of divorce"

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