In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first
Life does not compensate us for insight, understanding, wisdom, or intention. It only rewards action. You can tell the power holding that you intended to pay your bills, but all they care about is the money. You can't build a reputation on what you intend to do. It is so easy to get wrapped up in mind games and forget practical, daily living. There has been a battle between what we should be doing in life and what we end up doing.
Now, how do we begin to deal with our
problems? Some schools of thought would say, "we need to find the root of the problem. We need to dredge through the garbage dump of our past and find the original causes to what is bothering us now."
It is now clear that some insight and important information can be gained by looking through the past. However, the more important issue is what is presently going on in your life and what you want to change for the future. Let's say you and I were in the mountains admiring the beautiful rocks and trees. All of a sudden we heard a noise and looked up. It was the sound of an avalanche. Huge boulders were rolling down the mountain towards us. We are standing in the pathway and will most likely soon be crushed to death.
And suddenly with a frightened look you turn to me. I respond by saying, "Be calm. All we have to do is to find the root cause for why those rocks started rolling towards us." Then you respond by saying, "You are out of your mind! What we need to do is to start running for our lives."
But you should be right. It is only after we are safe from the biggest boulders that we can take the time to determine how it all got started. And perhaps then, when we were safe from the biggest boulders, it wouldn't even matter how they all got started. Probably a more important issue would be how to escape from boulders and to not get any more rolling.
Now what are the big boulders in your life? Are you scared enough to even run for your life? Have you been "hurt" enough to change? Dear when you seek emotional health and freedom from your hurt and pain as you would fight for air to breathe when it seems you are dying— then you will change.
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Now, how do we begin to deal with our
problems? Some schools of thought would say, "we need to find the root of the problem. We need to dredge through the garbage dump of our past and find the original causes to what is bothering us now."
It is now clear that some insight and important information can be gained by looking through the past. However, the more important issue is what is presently going on in your life and what you want to change for the future. Let's say you and I were in the mountains admiring the beautiful rocks and trees. All of a sudden we heard a noise and looked up. It was the sound of an avalanche. Huge boulders were rolling down the mountain towards us. We are standing in the pathway and will most likely soon be crushed to death.
And suddenly with a frightened look you turn to me. I respond by saying, "Be calm. All we have to do is to find the root cause for why those rocks started rolling towards us." Then you respond by saying, "You are out of your mind! What we need to do is to start running for our lives."
But you should be right. It is only after we are safe from the biggest boulders that we can take the time to determine how it all got started. And perhaps then, when we were safe from the biggest boulders, it wouldn't even matter how they all got started. Probably a more important issue would be how to escape from boulders and to not get any more rolling.
Now what are the big boulders in your life? Are you scared enough to even run for your life? Have you been "hurt" enough to change? Dear when you seek emotional health and freedom from your hurt and pain as you would fight for air to breathe when it seems you are dying— then you will change.
Click on "related posts"
See also "thinking is different from action"
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