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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

facts of life and problems of life

Another way to look to our choices is that there are facts of life and there are problems of life. Facts are the things we cannot change. There are problems you cannot change which means to be angry or fight against them is fruitless.

Problems are different than facts. Problems can be worked on. They can be overcome or changed. Overeating is a problem. Anger is a problem. Fear is also a problem. Depression is a problem. Having  a critical spirit is a problem. Problems give us the opportunity to make changes in our thinking and behaviour. When we take responsibility for our problems, we can change and grow. When responsibility is shouldered it creates hope. Hope generates energy and gives motivation to solve problems.

What's your outlook towards problems? Are you willing to face them? Are you willing to learn from them and grow in maturity? Have you made peace  with pain? Have you come to the place where you have accepted the facts of life that cannot be changed? Or you are still fighting and holding on thinking they will change? Is it time for you to let go? Is it time for you to submit to the bridle and bit of reality?

Problems can be worked on. Maybe it is your temper or lack of self- control. It might be in the area of procrastination or organization. It could be that you struggle with a low self-image or strong perfectionist tendencies. Whatever  difficulty you are facing, today is the day  to get started on effecting change.

See also "thinking is different from action"

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