Reasons why opposites Attract each other

Is there anything opposite than male and female? Yet they still attract each other after so many decades. In fact, the future of the race is dependent on such attraction. But unfortunately they fail to realize that their physical differences are only symbolic of the many other differences in their nature, the most significant of which are "temperaments".

Good to know, a negative is never attracted to another negative and positives repel each other in any field.
Instead negatives are attracted to positives and so on. That's almost the universal true of temperaments.

Have you ever wondered what attracts you to other people? Let me tell you, usually it is the subconscious recognition of and appreciation for their strengths-strengths that compliment your own weaknesses.

Consciously or otherwise we all wish we could eradicate our particular set of weaknesses, and we blissfully admire the strengths of others. Then, if given enough association with the person who sparks our attraction, we experience one or two things. It's either we discover weaknesses in them similar to ours and are understandable turn off by them, or we discover other strengths we are lacking which translates admiration into love. If other factors are favourable  then,  it's not uncommon for such couples to marry.

Temperament rarely cohere. For instance, a sanguine would marry another sanguine, because both are such natural extroverts that they would be competing for the same stage in life and no one would be sitting in the audience. It's equivalent with the saying, "two wrongs cannot make a right". Sanguine you see, need an audience to turn them on. There is need for opposites.

You can agree with me that in the western world where couples choose their own partners, you will find out that generally opposite temperaments attract each other.

In order for you to conquer misunderstanding and broken marriage, always go for the opposite. And also learning to adapt to your partner's weaknesses  why strengthening your own- this is known as adjustment in marriage and it's necessary.

Note: I am not suggesting that the single look for person that's opposite for mate.

Also I won't be telling you that there are no married couples that are very similar in their temperament.

Actually that's one of the reasons many venture and favour long "courtship"- it's because they usually give a couple times to expose the weaknesses of their temperament to their *proposed partner*

See also "while in courtship".