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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

The power of African woman

In Africa women are to be submissive and under the Supreme protection and control of her man. In Africa women are being treated as slaves by there men- "domestic violent" but I don't think that revolts of wives against their husbands can remedy this obnoxious situation. Because it has taken over as lifestyle.

Sadly, men are taking their women for granted. However, this, notwithstanding, women are now bent at going extra mile, beyond the men imagination, just to retrieve and or to recover their status quo (pride of womanhood).

"what a useless woman, I don't even know why I married you," Kelly said. Each time he finished beating Jennifer, he feels great of the real man he has become.

This didn't last, that one day, Jennifer bumped into an old friend. She took her to one white chalk native doctor. From that day on, everything about Kelly changed. People were surprised to see Kelly do all the house chores, receiving command from his wife. His obedience to those commands marvels people the more.

Side talks, gossip wouldn't solve the problem, it's by God's intervention. Jennifer became the man of the house. What an irony!

I think men should learn how to treat women, yes they are the head but they shouldn't push their women (wives) to the wall...

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