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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

7 Top Ways To Make A New And Right Relationship

One of the best ways to get things moving in your life is to get around achievers. In case you are starving of success watch the achievers

work. Learn how they think, listen to how they talk. You will inevitably become like the company you keep.

7 Top Ways To Make  a New And Right Relationship#  

1. Surround yourself with people who compliment you:#

Not those who duplicate you. If you are led only by those whose insight is no deeper than you own, how far will you get? When a blind man leads a blind man, they both end up in the ditch said our Saviour.

2. When you limit yourself to those who laugh at the same jokes:#

 Vote for the same party, and share the same ideas, it robs you of your personal growth, and forces you to live in a secure, but shriveled world. 

3. Learn to spend time with those who are already there:#

if you are going to progress to the next level, spend time with those who are already there or people who know how to get there—the goal getters

4. Learn to embrace development:#

Do you know that your healing can only take place only when you cross paths with people who stretch you. No wise person can laugh or make jest of you simply because you are seeking to improve. Everyone is a learner. Make attempt to ask no harm in trying. "Refuse to be become a prisoner in a world of ignorance" (Bob Gass)

5. Don't be Afraid or unsure of success:#

Quit being pessimistic. You may be thinking what if you don't measure up? You can't be too sure. If you don't stand near a king you won't know how much growth you need to become one. And you won't know your level and areas you need to improve.

6. Learn everyday:#

Life is a school and every few acquaintance becomes your teacher and you need to learn from it. Having less information doesn't make you a lesser person. Whatever others know, they have not always known it, they learn it. 

7. Your company defines you:#

Who do you relate with as a friend? What type of relationship do you have? What company do you keep? Learn to recognize toxic and parasitic relationships and make haste to walk away from them. Becoming more discerning and careful about the company you keep is the wisest thing to do before that wrong relationship takes you down with them. Just like our last short story of the The scorpion and the frog .


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