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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Beauty is in the character

I don't want to marry because of beauty. I am going to marry because of character—good character," Kunle said. "I swear, I must marry a beautiful girl, good character or not. You know I like beautiful things, classy ladies wearing heavy make-up," Tombo declared.

Lola is beautiful but her character disqualifies her as a true beauty. Tombo married her with the consolatory words "she will change". Lola's character flaws, she is infidelity. Tombo continues to endure her long lasting immoral
lifestyle. The worse is that she does not know how to cook, yet Tombo keeps managing her. "Whenever I see my wife's beautiful face I feel fulfilling joy and wish not to have another" he would boast.

Kunle wants to marry, seeing Ajai as a cool head, homely and wife material, he marries Ajai. Few months in marriage, Kunle feels ashamed walking on the road and the streets of with his wife. As a handsome young man he finds Ajai not filling the gap. His handsomeness tells him Ajai is not fitting at all. "Character is inward thing. The beauty of a woman is in her character. Good character is a virtue..." His mother continues. Since a man needs admiration and respect and Ajai gives them to you. All she needs is your support; as a woman is needs family and commitment so help her to achieve them," Kunle's mother advises him when she gets to know of Kunle's wrong judgement and unsatisfying attitude of his wife's physical appearance.

Ajai cooks for Kunle, her husband, nurses their baby. She is very hardworking. She performs all the womanly duties. What else does a man want from a woman if not her submissiveness to the husband. Ajai is hundred percent submissive and respects Kunle her huband. Treating him like a king. But Kunle reciprocates this love but he is not proud walking hand to hand along the road with her. See also "How humans are insatiable in nature"

On different page, Tombo enjoys the company of Lola, his wife, but Lola disgusts seeing him around her. Although, Tombo is good looking but Lola has been seeing different men of different sizes and colours outside. Tombo is just like a piece of cake to her. A camouflage of a husband, some man to lean on in guise of a married woman.
See also, "Men insatiable desire"

Now, which do you prefer?

My advice—please don't marry a woman or a man with the assertion that "He or she will change with time" who told you? Marry your taste—don't marry out of pity, patronage or compromise. Always remember to marry because of "who" not because of "what". "What" can always fail but "who" remains unchangeable.



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