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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Negative effects of being in the wrong spot

Frustration was what we discussed on in our previous posts as one of the negative effects of being in the wrong spot. We shall be discussing on other effects such as;

Desperation


Once you are pursuing your purpose and using your gifts, you experience fulfilment. You can imagine how luckier you can be then to spend your time doing something that pleases you and pleases your Creator. You're pleased because you can use your area of gifting

and your Creator will be pleased with
you because you are carrying out the assignment and purpose He created you for. On the other hand, other people are pleased because you are helping them fulfill their assignments. Meanwhile, if you help other people get what they need, you will always have what you need.

You act desperate, you lose hope because you have not identified your purpose, because you have not realized your area of gifting. When you discover who you are, there is no one to compete with because you are original. Realizing this, you don't have to be desperate because you know that you are heading a designated destination, no need to hurry. Once you are  focused, desperation is out of it. As soon as you realize that the only competitor you have is yourself. Having this in mind, you are fully assured that other people's gifts or successes won't threaten you because you know that others can never replace or become you. It's good to be determined but you have to take everything with ease. Everything will fall in right place. You cannot take my place neither can I take yours so the competition is over. This is because everyone has his own spot. And each serving according to their area of gifting.


Anger


When you discover who you are, you understand your value to the world  and your importance to human race, therefore you won't be feeling irritated with yourself or anything around you. Because you realize and recognize you have a contribution to  make. What you have to know is that your value does not come from the world. Your value comes from the recognition that you can supply something no one  else on earth has. And for that reason alone, you have nothing to fear or be angry about. Your gift is your value and that your value is your significance.   

Again, when you know who you are you don't have to impress anyone. You also do not have to prove anything to anybody. You can just be yourself and understand your value to the world. Meanwhile, knowing all this no cause for anger. But ignorance of you not knowing who you are, not realizing your gift—that alone should cause anger. You can also see yourself being jealous of another, this is simply because you are in the wrong spot. Because when you discover your authenticity, you know you are one of a kind. You cannot be me, I cannot be you, therefore we can never be threats to one another. Your spot belongs to you and my spot belongs to me. Jealousy can only take place when you think that someone can take away what you have or that someone has something which you do not have. You think that way simple because you have not realized your spot. But if you do, you won't be jealous of another which may cause you anger because you have infinite value through your unique contribution to the world. 

Depression

When you are depressed you have this sad feeling of inadequacy. You feel down and deprived of what is rightfully yours.
Fear envelopes. When you feel you missed the target, your track. You are not focused. You're heading to no designated destination. You have fear in you. This fear weighs you down drastically. But once you have identified your purpose you have this confidence in you that eliminates feelings of fear. You do not have to be alarmed or suspicious of anyone else's actions. Your belief about and in yourself, based on who you are and what you have been given to serve, cancels out the fear of others undermining or intimidating you.

You feel motivated once you discover your gift and it's corresponding areas of authority and authenticity, you no longer need external motivation of prodding. You recognize your assignment. You can get busy—your passion gets you up in the morning fills you with energy throughout the day. And it keeps you looking ahead the future with confidence and you become distinctive.

Sure, you still have a little more work to refine your gift!

See previous related post, "Why humans are insatiable"

See also, "connecting with the right spot"



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