Not the man's fault

Let's look at it this way, men are performers who feel they must have an acceptable level of production to be fulfilled. And as a performer, a man is competitive and goal oriented  as well. Also as initiator he is exposed to risk and failure as a result of it, they are often defensive (domineering prone) in his relationships, with his wife in marriage it's rampant.

For a man, long term relationships are risky because they expose his weaknesses, thereby making him
vulnerable to hurt and possible defeat. See this, instead of a man moving closer to his woman, a man will defend himself from hurt and defeat by escaping the relationship. Does that sound like it's true? And if he doesn't stay, his partner cannot hurt or prove him to be a failure. But what men did not understand is that, she sees you as a responsible man when you can withstand her in any situation. Check "understanding" And in this course research shows that men are more apt- (in large number) prone leaving their marriages than women. Are you satisfied with this statistical analysis?

Let's say, to compensate, if not to ensure against failure in his relationships, a man works hard to succeed in business. After all, he rationalizes if he is successful in the working world. Then he can buy whatever he needs to raise his sense of identity to a level he can live with. If he is not successful on the home front but his success at work protects many men from the pain of their failure at home.

It's not always easy to determine which is which because these ideas seem to be based on learned cultural differences rather than hormonal differences. Take a look at this; when you come home after a busy day, you have already accomplished what you feel is really important—you have won the battles at the shop, office, or store and you provide for your family. You want to relax, watch television, and read the paper. What do you get?

However, your wife has waited all day for you and is excited that you are home. You are ready to kick back, but she is ready to kick into gear. Meanwhile, she wants to talk. That's it!
At this point: I can tell you that patience is all a man needs to conquer the woman's problems to ascertain or maintain a good home. Truth be told, communication remains the strength, pillar or call it heartbeat of relationships.

Since talking is far more important to women than it is to men, she wants you to talk when you arrive home from a busy day at work. She is eager to hear everything that happened- all the events of your day. In same vain, she wants you to hear about all the things she has done while you have been away.  See "listening". She wants to share in your life. It makes a woman feel loved especially when your relationship is based on communication and intimacy. See also "communication in marriage." But it seems this has been the difficult area for men to trade in their relationships.

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