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How to keep a good communication

These will help you know when she needs your reassurance

  • Sudden arguments: for seemingly nothing or from nowhere, your partner (she) presents some sort of conflict. Which will cause you to ask, "where did that come from" perhaps after all you thought everything was just going fine.
  • Trying to escape: you are upset right or you just want time alone. That's normal for males, but when you do this, trying to have your quiet time, she will emerge from nowhere, she will be worried thinking there is something wrong or that you don't love her anymore. (couples know what I'm talking about)
  • Suddenly stops communicating: when silence occurs in a relationship she will jump from here to there, exaggerating, from beginning to end thinking, scanning from A-Z "he doesn't love me again perhaps it's my fault"
  • Sudden feeling of less important: you turn from being positive to feeling negative when your self worth begins to feel challenged, when your self-worth takes a nose dive.  When she suddenly turns negative like a posses goddess, this is a red light that she desperately needs to be talked to, listened to as well as be encouraged.
  • Your job takes you away from home: that time even though you might have to do what you have to do to provide financial security, she might read into this awayness that the reason is that you are avoiding her "he doesn't want to stay at home with me perhaps he doesn't love me anymore. But please men when you have to be away it is very important to give extra attention to your partner.
  • Bringing up old issues: old issues begin to reappear : women are guilty of this, your mate keeps bringing up things from the past- You just think a certain topic has been talked out but I tell you that doesn't mean she feels same way but she emphasizes on it just to nag. But you must have to reassure her when this recycling of issues appears from the bin. Try to check to see if your partner's emotional security is feeling threatened. Draw close to her to reassure her. See also "Tips for investing in her."

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