Unlocking the secret

Unlocking the secret of how to give your mate emotional security is a lot easier than satisfying her secondary need of financial security. Men tend to think that because they perceive that their relationship is going well, so do their partner. But that's wrong! Men rate their relationships higher than their partners. You need to get with the program. And part of that program is letting her know she is loved. Every man should know that that's the number one assurance his
woman needs.

One of the questions women ask is this "Do you love me?" And when she continues to ask if you love her, what she is really checking is, "Is our relationship alright? Because love is the pillar of every relationship. And any relationship that lacks love is unhealthy. See also "true definition of love" women need this "yes I love you" occasional reassurance that you still love her. Same with men, they need it to assure you(the man) that you are loved and appreciated.

And each time she asks this question, you men are likely to respond, "I told you I love you and nothing has changed. This points out how the two (man and woman) perceive "Do you love me" But I advise you gentlemen you can tell your her you love her every morning, and at the day's end she will ask, "Do you love me" it might not always be a verbal question but right in her mind she wonders.

It doesn't mean it's futile to keep telling her. Why? Because the amount of assurance she needs depends on her. But all women need to hear their man say "I love you". This is so because one of the greatest needs a woman has is to feel secure.

At times when men hear of security their minds always go to financial security, a new car, big houses, money etc, though women think that way but I tell you finances are not as important as having strong emotional security. She wants to always feel that she is loved and that you will always be there not only hugging her tightly but whispering in her ears "I love you" when she needs your strong arms. See also "love and affection"

But as men you may have difficult time realizing why this is such a big deal to her in particular. Don't forget that men are weird and women are strange. Meanwhile, if you learn the secret of saying "I love you" in ways that reach your partner's heart- beyond your imagination I tell you the reward will be great.

See "not the man's fault"

See also "How to know when your partner needs your reassurance"