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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

When you choose to understand others

It's true that the ability to understand others is a choice. Though I agree that some people are born with great instinct that enables them to understand how others think and feel. But in case you aren't  instinctive being, don't worry because you can still improve your ability to work with others. Nobody is weak to have the ability to understand, inspire, and be an influence peddler to others. When you choose to understand others, abide by these:

Choose to understand the other person's perspective or view: other person's way of regarding situation or topics. The problem with people today is that most people don't look beyond their own experience when they are dealing with others. They see other people and events in the context of their own position, even background including circumstances.

Develop personal empathy:
If really you want to understand and help others, another quality which should not elude from you is personal empathy. You can agree with me that it's not everyone that is empathetic. You don't have to wait for heaven to roar before you have feelings about other people's troubled situations or circumstances.

Develop positive attitude about people:
This is another invaluable quality. If you have a positive attitude about people and also believe in them, as well acting on your beliefs, then I assure you are going to have a remarkable impact on their lives- giving them reason to do exploit.

See also "things to understand about people"

Coming to you next is, "reasons why we fail to understand others"

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