Statements couples make to revitalize their commitment

Such vows as the one to be stated below is expected to come from the he or she and to be said at the appropriate time which will help them have a real- life understanding of marriage.
From him to her:

• My commitment to you is to your concerns each day for the purpose of having the kind of marriage we both want.
• I realize that your love will change. I will work to maintain a high level of romance, courtship and love in ourrelationship.
• I pledge myself to confront problems when they arise and not retreat like a turtle hiding in its shell.
• I commit myself in times of joy and in times of problems. We will tackle and share our problems together.
• I promise that I will never be too busy to look at the flowers with you.
• I will respect any beliefs any capabilities that are different from mine and will not attempt to make you into a copy of me.
• I will be open and honest with no secrets. And I desire you to be the same with me.
• The word of God I will reflect on my relationship with you.

With this marriage will be sweeter, purer and moreover a blessing that it's meant to be. 

See also "women's view of affection".