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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Listening Guide

The ear of the leader must ring with the voices of the people.

The ability to skillfully listen is one key to gaining influence with others.

No man would listen to you talk if he didn't know it was his turn next.

You are not learning nothing when you are doing all the talking.

Listening, not imitation, may be the sincerity form of flattery.

The first duty of love is to listen.

Every man I meet is in some way my superior, and I can learn of him.

Big people monopolize the listening; small people monopolize the talking.

You will never know how close you are to a million-dollar idea unless you are willing to listen.

Fresh, innovative ideas help us to find new ways to solve old problems, to generate new products and processes to keep organizations growing and to continue growing and personally improving.

Know how to listen, and you profit even from those who talk badly.

Everyone needs someone who he feels listens to him. 

A good listener is not only popular everywhere but after a while he knows something.

The friends who listen  to us are the ones  we move toward, and we want to sit in their radius.

Let others confide in you it may not help you,  but it surely will help them. 

The most important thing in communication is to hear what is not being said.

Comment on what you hear and individualize your comments- to prove your effectiveness in listening.

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