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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Frustration and Stress

The two keywords are;
Frustration and Stress 

Frustration:
Frustration refers to the state of being hindered of the set plans or effort. It's also feeling of annoyance at being hindered, this feeling is usually accompanied by experience caused by being thwarted of your set goals or objectives.

Causes of frustration 
Failure 
Unstable government 
Recession 
Unemployment e.t.c

Failure: failure is just a test. It's a trial of your strength, how far you can understand determines your next level of operation. But people misunderstand failure to be a tying knot, the end of life, little or no hope for success. People resorting to all kinds of evil deeds accusing failure as being responsible for their mischievous lifestyles.

Many joined gangs as armed robbers, kidnappers e.t.c. Kidnapping has been the talk of the day. The mild but bluntly way of terrorizing human life. It elicited from greed and laziness. The word kidnap simply means taking away a soul in an undisclosed place, usually isolated and against the victim's will with the aim to extract a ransom. They hold the kidnapped in captivity, hostage until their request is being given or their demands being met. 

Meanwhile, the above four causes of frustration we shall look into them one after the other but stress will be a topic of its own probably in our next discussion...

          To be continued...

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