Domestic violence is not lack of love

Domestic violence or abuse occurs as a result of:

• Frustration
• Stress
• Failure
• Impatience
• Inability to accommodate
• Flagging differently/different views or perceptions
• Lack of trust
• Clash between two temperaments
• Inability of the couple to blend their temperaments.
•  Disloyal/ treacherous wife
• Unsubmissive wife
• Temperamental husband finds it difficult to understand that he should overlook some of her rantings and bantering.
• Insecurity
• Nagging wife
• Talkative: most men are so secretive that they are too reticence about divulging their secret, so with such a talkative as a wife the man resorts to always hitting her. 
• Misunderstanding

Most men that hit their wives love their wives very much that they would never take it to see another man lay hand on their wife. Most men that hits their wives are the most lovable and affectionate husbands no doubt but the spirit of hatred enters in them when one of the above appears to manifest in them. Most time bad influence of friends at the drinking joints. Some say ill things against women and the man foolishly drinks himself to stupor only to return home and ends up hitting the wife to justify himself as still the man of the house as if the wife disputes that with him.

Men forget that raising their hands on their wives never makes them "man enough" but it colours them "irresponsible". Alcohol is another contributor of domestic violence—a loving husband turns to a bitter husband once he joins the team of the drunk or smokers he beats his wife at any slight offence just to unleash his frustrated self and calm his nerves on her.

See also, "Causes of domestic violence"
"Signs of domestic violence"
"What is domestic violence"

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