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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Stages of domestic violence

There are things that lead to a man brutalizing his wife. Such personal reasons may grow to become hatred. Psychologically it keeps growing from stage to stage till it becomes a habitual action. Now the man can't help stopping to treat her badly. Such signs:
  • Finding her so disgusting
  • Scolding at her at all time
  • Tempting to hit her
  • Using hurting words on her
  • Abusing her to the extent of pushing her to talk back
  • Zero love
  • Complaining and detesting everything about her.
  • Bullying her at any slight misunderstanding (hitting stage)
  • Punching her
  • Giving her bruises afterward


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