10 Top Steps To Find A Friend

Remember what I said on our previous posts How to make a good friend? If you want to have a friend or have friends, you must be friendly. To striking the friendship spark then take a bit of a

jump start because that's what the steps. These are practical steps.

Step 1 Carry a business card: keep ample quantity of business cards in your bag so that you would find it easy to ask someone to give you a call.

Step 2 Drop a line: in case you don't have a business card do well to drop a phone number to someone you would like to stay in touch with.

Step 3 issue an invitation: invite him or her to a recreation center or suite or to a lunch or work out just to have a close touch and get to know them. Here it is good and very important you learn about a new acquaintance especially their birthday, family's names and know who they value as important to them. Your friendship will grow faster if you always ask them after important people in their lives especially family members.

Step 4 offer a welcome: if someone new moves into your neighborhood or school or workplace or church introduce yourself to them and devote yourself to help them fit in the new environment. This will help your friendship to grow. 

Step 5 free your mind or open your mind: to accept new person in your life you decide it with the determination and openness of mind you can easily welcome new phase of persons in your life. Your next best friend might be someone you don't expect irrespective of the age, race or colour.

Step 6 leave room for future friends: this means you create an entrance in your life for future friends. Try scheduling some things to do alone—a stroll through exciting places, a daily walk. Learning new things you can share with a new friend. 

Step 7 learn something different and new: you can take a class, attend seminars and conferences. The more you ask brilliant questions and participate people would want to get personal with you. The more potential friends you apt to meet.

Step 8 keep in mind spiritual link: this means you nourish spiritual connections. Keep your eyes open and your head working as you attend spiritual events or religious activities. You definitely will meet someone who seems to share your spiritual interests. The only thing you do is to get in contact with the person to know when you would consider having a prayer with you or something of that like.

Step 9 Learn to ask for help with a project: it is not only a good way to get the job done but also a great way to know someone better. 

Step 10 Free to offer someone a ride: they won't only appreciate you but it is another way to get to know each other better because the short journey is enough time for acquaintance that will last.

Have yes in your heart you never can tell how the person beside you might turn to be a best friend. That's why you have to be accommodating and willing to accommodate the person next to you. Just like the last comment on our previous post "If you want to have a friend you must be friendly"

Hope this will go a long way to help you find a good friend.

Read our previous posts 

10 ways to building a healthy relationship

How to make him feel your presence