10 Things You Should Do To Have A Lasting Relationship

1. Faithful 

Relationship (marriage) with its stresses, trials and inescapable closeness to another person: this is certainly a test to see how we live out the gospel. When the partners honour their vows

the relationship can really be a blessing. What greater thing is there for two souls than to feel that they are joined for life to strengthen each other. The moment you realize that you don't be the victim of infidelity in your relationship the stronger your relationship. Act on your promises to be loyal and steadfast to the principles of morality and your vow to be for your partner alone.

2. Transparent

Be easily perceived or detected by your partner. Always let the light penetrate that it could be seen from a distinct even. Don't be secretive. Openness brings your partner close to you and together you two tackle a problem because it takes two to tango. Be plain like black written on a white paper. Let your actions be distinctly seen don't be too tight to understand. Your partner should be able to state who you are without mincing words. Read also If you would learn how to understand others

3. Caring

Always help your partner out. If she is cooking, you can do laundry depending on the relationship structure. Here married partners the discourse. Share responsibilities. Women feel loved when their partners help. What care is better than watching both backs. This doesn't make the man a weakling but after doing it look right into her eyes and say "just another way to say I love you" read 5 tips for investing in her 

4. Sentimental or Compromise

Be ready to change your decision and don't feel sorry for changing your mind especially when changing your decision can really bring good effects and positive changes to your relationship. You should be able to manifest the refine feelings of emotions and tenderness and pity on your partner. Change your decision so far it brings or yields positive outcomes. Express your self indulgent feelings of tenderness passionate feelings that's nostalgia and treacly sentiment for your partner. Make them feel the spicy and taste of you. 

Compromise by being able to settle dispute between the two of you by mutual concessions. After all with mutual understanding partners flaws and weaknesses would be easily managed.

5. Commitment 

Being devoted to your relationship helps step up and cultivate a lasting relationship. A woman's greatest desire is to have her husband come alongside her and take the leadership role in developing a strong family. As a husband or the man in the relationship, you help your wife or partner as the case may be feel loved when she sees that you too are excited about this new adventure. When the man is committed to this task the partner rejoices and falls deeper in love. Don't let the burden of building that relationship on one side. It is for the two of you and so will your commitment be worth it someday.

6. Integrity 

Becoming oneself and integrating profers sustainability in your relationship. Partners should be strong and have some moral principles with this they will be able to understand each other and trust each other. Partners should be loyal and honest to each other. And avoid living a insincere life making your partner find it difficult not to understand your person because you're so irritatingly rigid. Most partners won't deal with a rigorous partner. There will always be suspicions because their partner is untrustworthy.

7. Love and Affection 

Love It is hundred percent true women love to be loved but it is one thing to be selfish and another to be selfless in your relationship. Yes it's true women want to be in the arms of a manly man. It makes them feel more self confident and more relaxed. A gentle man who is strong when he has to be is beautiful but then when he has a good woman by his side he enjoys an inner contentment that isn't based on accomplishments, status, bank account, title, authority or power.

Affection

It is true women don't approach love same way men do. Men are often driven by their eros and could hardly differentiate between love and lust. They can move into libidinous desire even before love itself appears. Men perceive they are loved when their partners satisfy them in bed whereas it is not same with women. They would want to feel loved before seeking for satisfaction. Women are affection oriented. She places more value on love, on the feelings of romance and affection. A wise man calms down by slowing down in his action to make sure he is fulfilling those needs first. This helps to give your relationship lasting survival. Meanwhile, men should not wait until bedtime to start getting romantic.

Start setting the stage at breakfast with kind words and loving touches. Leave a thoughtful notes. Give your wife a call during the day. When you return give her heartfelt kisses and hug. Listen to her talk this makes her feel loved read also My husband preoccupied with self Start with words that build up, encouraging and sustaining words if really you want her to respond to your eros prowess.

8. Ignore Assumptions 

Stop assuming try to find out and the other should try to losen up. It is very important to help your partner when times are difficult. Reaching out to help and accepting help gets our needs met and creates a special bond with the person we let come near. Stop assuming they should know you need help. NO. Share your needs with your partner. Nothing should be hidden from your partner. Let your partner come near whether your need is large or small, emotional, physical, spiritual, intellectual or material. She feels loved when you trust her with your emotions.

It is not a sign of weakness for a man to entrust his emotions in his partner's. The most problem partners have in relationship is that they are unaware of their partner's needs simply because they are always looking for what to get other than what to give. Don't always expect learn how to give in your relationship. Always be ready to contribute and don't assume all the needs should be shouldered by the man in the relationship. Read also men need and women's need, read also How to make a man hunger to have you . Learn how best to meet your partner's needs.

9. Reality

Be ready to face the reality of your relationship. It must not be sweet at all time so don't expect your relationship to be rosy after all Mary and Jude are enjoying a harmonious relationship with no troubles. The moment you realize that keeping a tight lip in most things in your relationship the better, lively and stronger your relationship becomes. Face the real business ahead. It is left for the two of you to build so no third party should be involved to do it for you. Relationship especially marriage is eye opener and it demands hard work. You will begin to understand things and feel things. Stereotype your situations or your partner other than facing the reality the problem for you.

10. Support

Financial support is the number one thing a relationship needs to stand. Even when some are waggling their tongues that love is enough to sustain a relationship. That's contrary to the fact not really close to the truth, you need to be told that financial security of the woman matters to her more than love itself. Read also love is not enough to build a healthy relationship read also what every woman needs in a relationship 

A partner's (husband's) inability to provide the basic needs of a wife and children if any can cause real strain. If she has to work to support you the risk is that she let's her husband off the hook. Then he relaxes and risk to set a lower standard for what he needs to do to meet the family's goals and desires. But the man should step up and be the breadwinner of the family. Men need to provide for their families if otherwise the woman will keep the shoulder high and it's not good for the remember that men are egoistic and don't need to jeopardize their interests.