How To Be Manly And Gentle

It is true that most men have difficulty expressing love. Truly, marriage is very hard work, the exacting kind of work that makes us look under a magnifying glass which shows all of our blemishes and imperfections. But on this article we are going to let us know how to be manly and gentle at the same time.

Now know this—women are truly unique and are very difficult for men to understand. One leading question which I have not yet been able to answer—what does a woman want? The truth is that most times men are confused on how and what to do to ensure they please their wives. They are still very much confused trying to figure out what women want, this made it possible for them to have a hard or difficult or rather call it rough time expressing their love in ways their wives find special.

Let me reveal a secret to you in case you are confused what the woman wants most. She desires conversation with her husband. But men dont talk I mean they don't always feel like to talk but they are good at expressing their feelings or emotions than verbal. On the contrary the woman loved when their men not only talk to them, but also listen. Although it can he tough to find the right balance. How can a man say he can't open up to tell his wife he loves her because he feels nothing towards her? 

Let me help you. Think about the agape love, best type of love and see also, seven types of love pretend you want to give her a general love. Each day as you wake, decide to love your wife. Don't ever depend upon how you feel. Feelings come and go. Always stay true to your commitment to love your spouse, even when the feelings aren't there. Even when what you used to feel for her has died or gradually disappeared. 

Do this, act loving. See also strategies for Revealing your love 

It is necessary to know that loving your wife is your duty and must start seeing it as a priority.

How to be manly and gentle 

Understanding the emotional needs of your partner:

The greatest question a wife ask is? "Do you love me?" to be manly and gentle tell her reassuringly that you love her. Most men make the mistake of not answering this question directly. Such as 'I told you on the altar that I loved you nothing has changed now'.  That's not enough, you tell her how much you love her. Every woman needs to hear her man say I love you often. It is a constant reassurance.

Most men think that the security of a woman is to provide her with finance. Yes it is true women think that way as well but finance aren't nearly as important as having strong emotional security—deeply feelings that she is loved and that you will always be there when she needs your strong arms to hug her tightly and you "I love you" you whisper in her ear, that keep her going and your relationship with her blossom.

Unlocking the secret of how to give her emotional security;

This goes a lengthy way in feeding her yawning for security. Unlocking the secret and how to give your mate this emotional security is a lot easier than satisfying her Secondary need of financial security. 

There are certain signals that will tell you your wife needs support and reassurance:

1. Argument 

2. Nagging 

3. Staying away or escape from her

4. Stop communication 

5. Stop feeling important 

6. Taken away from home due to job

7. Raising old issues that seem to be buried or dead.

When the man starts all those mentioned above and she noticed it, then she will begin to feel insecure, read also 10 ways to win the heart of your partner 

Good now that you have known that emotional insecurity is a big deal in your wife's life, always reassure her how much you love and cherish her.

See also, True definition of love