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7 Things That Trigger Someone To Love You

Are you the type that have been in so many relationships with different people but come out of them futile? Do men or women see you, have a short time with you and easily get tired of you and finding you less attractive after having a piece of you or spending your fiscal or material resources? Not to worry after reading this article you will have a lasting and happy relationship. Here are 7 things that trigger someone to you love.

7 Things That Trigger Someone to Love You

1. Integrity 

Integrity is the foundation of life and to start a relationship you have to build it on trust. Living a sincere life brings many people close to you. Once you have bought people's trust you can't tell how far you go with buying them on your side. Sincerity, trustworthiness, people never let person with those qualities and you can make a progress albeit rather slowly but trust me they will love you.

2. Respect 

Humility is what makes you to respect others. People love who is down to earth no matter what or who they are. Humility is the greatest sophistication. Once you are humble you respect everyone you meet on your way, small persons or big persons. And being respectful takes you to meet personalities. Humility and loyalty Trigger you to respect. Accepting everybody as somebody. With sense of humane always feeling that everyone is one and needs to be treated with love and respect. People always love you and want to come close and or associate with you.

3. Sanctity 

You would agree that people who don't respect their body are reduced in the sight of others. If you are always being unreasonable promiscuous and flirting unnecessarily then people won't like to come close to you. The only ones that can are those that only want to have a piece of you and nothing more. Meanwhile they wouldn't also want to have anything serious with you. But you are the type that have self control and reserved pride and resist immorality I assure you are going to win the heart of many on your side.

4. Kind hearted:

Helping people especially strangers is very good. Many don't know the value of doing good to people. Kindness is from a sincere and loving heart and people get attracted at the mere sight of a kind person and don't easily let go of them.









5. Smile

You don't know how much your smile can go to attract the person next to you. Smile is the best cure to a dying soul and you can bring different people in contact with you. Friendly look is very good and necessary and you need it. Always put a smile on your face to cheer others up. You will only only be found lovely but lovable too.

6. Tolerance

Some people can't tolerate but I'm telling you now that tolerance is part of it. Be accommodating though I know that at times people could be so annoying that you would decide not to accommodate or take their overbearing attitude. But if you want to win people try to accommodate and take their shit and I tell you will be surprised to see them love you.

7. Politeness

Ugh, courtesy if it takes for you to have a sugar coated tongue please do. This has won so many with good fortune I tell you. It is only when you are selfless and want to put smile on others faces that you can do everything possible to please them. Going miles to have your way in people's life can be tasking you know, so that's the more reason you shouldn't give up on people. Always be nice in your utterances. Avoid foul words, try to be flawless in your words. Think before you talk. Soft voice and tender loving tone attract beastly heart. Always try as much as you could to curtail hurting words. Everybody wants to be pampered just like you do so give it to others, sure the result will surprise you to smile.

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