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10 ways to win the heart of your partner

It has not been easy to win someone else's heart. This is because human heart is unpredictable. Therefore we have decided to come with measures and we suggest you apply them because it is only when you feel happiness inadvertently in a relationship that you enjoy the relationship more.

Lately, we have given tips,5 tips a woman needs to improve her relationship, we also gave 15 ways to fix a broken relationship, 10 way to building a healthy relationship is also helpful when it comes to the growth of your relationship and today we shall be looking at 10 ways to win the heart of your partner.

10 ways to win the heart of your partner

1. Include Them In Your List
2. Make Them Your Priority
3. Treat Your Partner as good as possible
4. Believe In Your Partner
5. Be A Supportive Partner To Your Partner
6. Don't Compare:
7. Respect Your Partner
8. Sieve The Words You Use On Your Partner
9. Friendly Approach
10. Be Kind To Your Partner


1. Include Them In Your List: 
Don't be selfish, always be selfless. Don't expect always, give, attach their needs with your needs. This goes a long way to prove that they have a space or lacuna which they are filling in your life.

2. Make Them Your Priority: 
Satisfy their needs first, this will show that you want them to be the best they can be and you want their happiness too. Let your partner problem be yours. Share  their joy and sad moments with them. Don't feel less concerned in matters that concern them.

3. Treat Your Partner as good as possible: 
Treat your partner as if it was yourself. Treat them as you would have them to treat you. Don't look down on them even if they are not worth it. Respect is paramount to every relationship for healthier relationships. 

4. Believe In Your Partner:
When you show confidence in your partner believe you me your partner's life is going to be improved. See also, believing in others

5. Be A Supportive Partner To Your Partner:
Don't discourage or turn your back on whatever your partner is doing. You don't agree that their vision is realistic or rationale. You are always being pessimistic when it has to do with their job, that it looks as if you don't have their future at heart.











6. Don't Compare:
Most people don't like it when someone compares them with another person especially when the person is doing well more than them. That's why I said earlier that you have to encourage them and make them believe in themselves that they can do more. Tell them that their future is bright. Possibly confess it to them that you are proud to have them in your life.

7. Respect Your Partner:
Are you always using hurting words or foul words on your partner? Indirectly mocking them and telling them that you have no regard for them and they are nothing kills relationship. Abusing them at a slight opportunity you have got simply because you have misunderstanding with them is very wrong. These don't nourish any relationship at all. Make them feel they are somebody even if they are not. Let them feel they belong. Belongingness is vital for the growth of every relationship. Make them feel they are important in your life even when you foot all their bills.

8. Sieve The Words You Use On Your Partner: 
Avoid foul words or provocative words. Don't make them feel less and irresponsible or inferior. You don't have to make them lose their self confidence. 

9. Friendly Approach:
Be nice to your partner. Don't be rude, unfriendly or harsh on them. Don't make it look like they are not part of you. Start seeing them as you see yourself. Let your partner be your best friend. Talk to them with respect and correct them politely. Courtesy demands you make your partner feel warmth, loved and valued.

10. Be Kind To Your Partner:
Show your partner real love. Giving is a virtue and it's the foundation of every successful relationship. Don't be mean and stingy to your partner. If you don't give you don't love. Real lovers are givers. You love to give and you give because you love.



Hope it helped?
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