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10 Things To Know About Your Partner

Most relationships end up vexed because of incompatibility of the two parties. Some may be two opposing parties who don't know that they are very much different and would find it difficult to work in rapport with each other. At first they may be ignorant of this due to perhaps infatuation or feign attraction. This is why many relationships fail. Yes they probably would have started in a very good note but along the line it begins to somersault and crumble while it lasts. The profound love gradually disappears as it slowly fades away yet they two are ignorant of what is wrong. Have you asked yourself why it is so?

10 Things You Have To Find Out About Your Partner

They are quite amazing and we have come up with this article to help your relationship and love life grow and becoming the envy of others'.













1. Giving Capacity

This matters a lot. Some people are stingy and when you have a stingy partner but you love giving it's a problem. He or she won't be happy if you try to force them into giving because it is never part of them. Giving is a natural habit you develop unconsciously that you practice subconsciously yeah. So it is not what you wake up and become a sudden giver. If your partner is a stingy type, sure it is going to affect you a lot seriously because he won't be willing to give you when you are in need of help.

2. Tolerance Capacity 

Tolerance is a virtue you don't buy it. Most people have the flaw of intolerance and cannot accommodate people. They don't have a loving heart. Though at times people push us to act strange, unfriendly and bitterly but giving a second thought self control and seeing reasons to be yourself and overlook any attitude they must have put on is another task but we have to learn it and practice it. If your partner happens to be a hard and intolerance person sure your relationship will be in disarray and you will always be disappointed at them at all time. This is not good sign for a successful relationship.

3. Loving Heart

Love is the foundation of every relationship just like trust is the pillar. If you have a partner who is not loving and finds you lovable you won't be loved. It takes a loving heart to love. If your partner doesn't have a loving heart they won't give you maximum love.

4. Security 

Some people are always feeling insecure for no reason. So for you not to be disappointed find out the type of partner you have. Are they always feeling insecure around you, find it difficult to trust you. Can't trust you with their secrets and hearts? then run because it isn't good omen for a relationship.

5. Privacy 

Is your partner the type that loves privacy and secretive that they can't trust you with anything confidential? Find out because every partner deserves to know their partner 99%.

6. Warmth 

Does he or she feel cold around you or warmth and want to involve you in everything about their lives? Lucky you! Because feeling warmth is a good sign of a healthy relationship and it's only a sincere and transparent partner can feature transparency in their relationship.

7. Listening Ability 

When you  have a partner who doesn't listen to your stories and your shit. Who doesn't want to pay attention to hear you talk about your day then they have difficulty in listening. Read also Importance and benefits of listening  

8. Level Of Encouragement And Support

The worse thing that can happen to you in your relationship is to have a partner who is antagonizing your career or not supporting you at all. A partner who can't give you reasonable advice or encourage you to sail on in whatever it is you are pursuing. It is as if your partner doesn't want something good for you. They don't want the best out of you. Acting like the are anti-success. You don't need such partner around you. Read also Dream killers and destiny achievers

9. Fret Or Fretless In Face Of Adversity
 
Some will run away when you are facing problems. Only a very kind person who truly loves you won't let you suffer alone. So you consider the kind of partner you are working with. Are they the type that run away when you have problems. They get fret taking to their heels leaving you to suffer. That they wear and get themselves in a fret over something so simple. Or are they the type that can stand with you anytime any day and anywhere no matter the situation they would still want to stay with you.

10. Preserved, Faithful, Level Of Companionship

Is he or she a promiscuous type that instead of keeping you company they would want to use any slight opportunity to take advantage of you? It is only a selfless partner can give you a genuine company when you so much need it. If you notice or observe your partner to be selfish of a kind, there is problem because your problem won't be their own problem. They always want to be satisfied, huh. So it is your decision to keep such a character as a partner or not.

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