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10 ways to know if she truly loves you

Her proof that she loves you is notable. It is obvious and cannot be hidden. It is difficult for her to pretend her love for you. If she loves you, she must show it but if she doesn't she would also show it. That is why I insist that she cannot pretend loving you when she isn't loving you. I am here to give you some tips, you can call it steps, any which, here are 10 ways to know if she truly loves you. 

Let me chip in this, few men don't know the importance of going for a God fearing lady. There is this popular proverb, " if you are going for a friend, to for a partner you can accept when it comes to marriage. That's why I tell young people don't go into relationship with someone you can't be proud to accept or call your lifetime partner when the time is come.

10 ways to know if she truly loves you

1. Sincerity 
2. Flexibility
3. Proud of you
4. Making you a priority
5. Dancing to your tone and not demanding
6. Making herself available
7. Encouragement
8. Flexing him in public
9. No regretting attitude
10. Faithful

1. Sincerity
If she is ashamed of calling you her love in public then she is not loving and she is not reliable. If she is not sincere, not truthful, not honest, her yes is always No. Then she is not trustworthy.

2. Flexible
She is open to you. She let's you into her private life. You get to know everything about her. If your partner is not free and open with you then there is a problem. It shows she doesn't want you in her life. Any woman that doesn't recognize him as her partner has  a secret. Flexibility is seen through her special regard and attention to his thought. She wouldn't want him to see her rigorous, she works to get him understand her every move. She is not secretive and above all not diversifying.

If you are not convinced at her attitude, that's you still have a doubt, then find out when she is not loving you; (unconsciously) so that you don't make it look deliberate okay that you are checking her, beg to use her phone to do something important that your phone is acting up. Only you know what you want, to have access to her phone you. If she refuses then it's obvious she is hiding something from you about herself which you don't know. At least you will get to find out the true woman you have taken as a partner. 

3. Proud of you
A reliable woman is always proud of her partner. She confesses her undying love to him and works it out to make it work. She avoids every suspicious act because she wants to be trusted. She wishes not to have another man. If she is the type that hides face way whenever she is with you. Or she makes the relationship you trust to be cordial to appear casual before her friends or other people, then she is not loving; because love is advanced selflessness and possessiveness. If she is loving she would always acts protective and ownership to confess she wouldn't want to lose you.

4. Making you her priority 

She treats you like you are her number one. Owing her heart. Other people are second. You are her life and king. Your need and problem become hers. She makes sure you are fine. You are her first and everything. She holds you in high esteem. She wishes that anything that should hurt you should first hurt her. She always wants your problems to be fixed. Even the ones she couldn't help, she would encourage you. Share your joy, sorrow, peace and happiness together. She wants your comfort and derives joy to see you blossom and glow. She does  not want to upset you because she wouldn't stand to see you angry. She treats you as her prince.


5. Dancing to your tone and not demanding

She walks according to his wish and is not demanding. If she is too demanding know that she does want you but come into your life for material things and once you go broke she takes to her heels. When she neglects you, don't show you signs of care, know that she is interested in what you can offer her and she isn't serious with you.


6. Makes herself available

this is needed in times of need, when he is facing challenges. It is paramount in every su successful relationship. She always shows herself and makes herself available. She doesn't stay away from her partner. Helping her partner when he is in need. The time of your challenge and difficult moments is when you will realize a real partner. If she  begins to avoid you, running away from your sight, she begins to discharge and distancing you, know that she is avoiding you. She has noticed that you have fallen and she thinks you have nothing to offer her, she us simply telling you that she doesn't have real love for you. 


7. Encouragement

telling him why he needs to be strong and courageous that he can actually do it, no matter the situation. If she is not encouraging him, it shows she doesn't care about him. Even when she is not present she sends him encouraging text messages. Showers him much love. And sending him lovely, romantic and exciting messages. She counsels and advises him rightly. She gives him productive thoughts and brainstorms ideas that are not farfetched just to see him move on and on top of the world. 

8. Flexing him in public 

she publicly talks about him. She flags the relationship, announces and approves him in public as her own. She publicly speaks and confesses her love for him. She doesn't hide her face while walking down the streets with her partner. 
No matter the body physique of her partner she appreciates him. She plays and flaunts him no matter challenges. 


9. No regretting attitude

Not indecisive. A sure attitude is what she gives to him at all time. She assures her partner and tries her best to make him believe and her confidence in her. She cherishes every moment she spends with him.

10. Faithful

She is content and satisfied to have you in her life makes herself your own completely. She shows fidelity in their relationship. This is one of the determining qualities that approves her full acceptance of their relationship and that she values the relationship. 

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