Things that being overprotective can cause in your relationship

Every relationship is built on trust. When your partner doesn't trust you every woman she sees around you becomes your new catch. This is not good for any relationship. Sometimes the woman has to overlook and ignore some certain things in a man. You don't monitor him lest you lose your sanity to drive him to ditch. You could actually drive yourself to psychological trauma, mental disorder. A man who is responsible knows himself and doesn't need to be checkmated before he lives a decent life of a loving partner. He puts his home his family first. Another thing you should know is if a man truly loves you he would never have the thought of cheating on you, not even for any reason. 

This means that as a woman your duty is to know the things your husband likes and do them so that he wouldn't want to look at another woman out there who does or gives him what you couldn't do or give to him respectively.

Being conscious of yourself not to get loose so that your partner would stop seeing those qualities and body physique that attracted him to you the first time. Do your own part and leave the rest to God. It takes trust to keep a healthy relationship. And it takes two to tango. Why it is wrong for a woman to be overprotective is not farfetched.

Things that being overprotective can cause in your relationship

• Discomfort of your partner 

He wouldn't find it interesting and funny again. When you over do, he has no option than to get tired of you.

• Pushing him away 

Broken relationship because you bring your marriage out. Exposing your relationship making people to take notice of it and know you are protecting your husband from other women they would definitely go miles just to have him. Because you are being over reactive cause of your histrionic behaviour. It is very good to read 15 ways to fix a broken relationship 

• Reality fear

Unfortunately most times your fears hunt you. If you keep monitoring him at a point it becomes irritating that he couldn't condole again. It takes a man who tolerates to accommodate a nagging woman. He could learn to stay in a calm environment to rest his head like recreation centers before you could know it he has started keeping late nights. Drinking from one joint to the other.

• Change a good man to bad

He eventually began to listen to friends who would lure him to the league of chronic womanizers.

• Becoming an enemy of your relationship

No man likes nagging partner. The secret of having your husband is giving him chance, a breathing space. Give him room to feel loved not chasing shadow and causing him go through emotional pain without you knowing the damage your nagging has caused. 

• Restlessness 

Dont allow him see it that you are paranoid. It is not good for your relationship. Making too much of a minor issue. You end up either losing him or something priceless in your relationship.  You could end up clashing with his female clients who would end up terminating the contracts they have with your partner simply because you are overly protective.

Most women who end up suffering with their partners in marriage 99% caused it. It is man's greatest fear that hunts him down. You left him with no option than overthinking becoming a vex soul.

• Insecurity

Know that feeling security in your relationship simply because you think another woman out there would take him away from you could be disastrous. Insecurity can cause many things, your partner is always a suspect, this paranoid attitude won't let you see when your partner starts cheating on you because you aren't being sensitive enough. You always have wrong instinct that he is cheating without being considerate of how he feels nor paying more attention on the lackings of your relationship. 

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