How challenges define success

Today we are going to see how difficulties and challenges define our success. Follow us step by step on the beat without missing any point. 

Do you know?

1. No idle man becomes rich

2. It costs to play safe

Looking at the key words above you would recognize some if not the two keywords

are related to our previous posts. But I will have to add more to increase the knowledge we already have while you also read through the links.

*No idle man becomes rich:

If you have not experienced people treating you like an outcast you have not started the journey of life and success. And if you choose to be idle so that you avoid people's negative talk about you make the situation worse. Your success life is still at stake. You need challenges to succeed. See also, "you need discomfort to succeed" For you to encounter challenges you must work. The higher you go in life the bigger your problems and challenges. Just like the more you grow big, the increase your weight becomes. See also "You can't think poor and become rich"

*It costs to play safe:

When you open your mouth to talk people twist their lips, because they know you are always not going to follow their way. See also, "living on others footprint" People who consider peoples reactions are trying to play it safe. You can't play it safe and succeed. This is because you don't live their life and they can't live your life for you. That's why you risk your comfort zone, your time, your strength just to do extraordinary irrespective of the storm. See also, "playing it safe costs" Always learn to dance off their music just to be you. Your way of thinking and acting is different from theirs, so all behaviour, attitude, action should be different.

They make you feel rejected and want to hurt yourself because you choose to stand out of crowd: with self love you can survive in such situations.

If you must succeed;

Guess the *Don'ts*

• Don't compromise just to please people.
• Don't look back if you must reach your destination.
• Don't compare.
• Don't look at people's notion about you.
• Don't consider what people say about you.
• Don't listen to people's gossip about you.
• Don't give a thought of their actions and attitudes toward you. See also, "who great leaders really are"

The only consequence of being yourself is standing alone. But there are many advantages, you stand to gain your respect, pride and people see you as person of integrity and policy. Those qualities are great gain for a unique personality.

It's only difficulties and challenges that define success. If you keep sailing on roses' train you are simply static. Because even a moving train at a point breaks down—that's its challenges, it will wear and tear and will need some spare parts for replacement and maintenance for correction and repair much less human beings who often feel depressed, frustrated and rejected and other emotional traumas—expect such challenges in your runnings to reach destination. See also, "how to handle rejection"

Wow! Hope you are inspired! Thanks for patiently reading our article!

Coming next *Risk births success*