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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Gentleness, service and Goodness

Gentleness 
Now, if you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day—go fishing 
If you want happiness for a lifetime—help someone else.

When was the last time you consciously thought about being gentle or saying something gentle to others? I tell you it's almost impossible to be wrapped up in your own troubles and be gentle at the same time. Gentleness is not a sign of weakness. Rather it is a sign of great strength. But as you continue your journey to feeling great, your focus will change from your own inward struggles to the problems and difficulties others face. When you begin to think of others your own suffering begins to fade.

Service 
If you wish to be a leader you will be frustrated, for very few people wish to be led. And if you wish to be a servant, you will never be frustrated. It's only a servant can make a good leader. See also Servant leadership and benefits

It is observed that throughout history, most of the great heroes are remembered for how they served others and helped mankind. True happiness does not come from having others wait on us. It comes from serving others and their needs. Our saviour once told his disciples that how to become great in the kingdom that they must become servants. Now what can you do to help someone today?  Start now. Give it a thought!

Goodness 
Always do all the good you can, in all the ways you can, to all the souls you can, in every place you can, at all the times you can, with all the zeal you can, as long as ever you can. 

Our society today desperately needs people who display real goodness. The kind that stands for honesty and integrity. It's said that, right is right even if someone is against it and wrong is wrong even if everyone is for it. So, right now are you willing? Are you willing to be counted as a person who not only talks goodness, but lives it by helping people who are less fortunate than yourself? Your family will be transformed by goodness if you assume the responsibility for initiating goodness.

See also Kindness, encouragement and trust

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