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Thinking about doing something is not the same as doing it.  For instance, thinking about stealing is not stealing, thinking about dishonesty is not same as lying. Though one can lead to the other but they are not the same. Often people think about doing the right thing. The dwell on those thoughts and evaluate just the best way to do the right thing—but they never take action. Life is all about logic. Logical expressions when reasoned and put in actions become fact. If I repeat something often enough, it will become true in my mind. That's why some people who exaggerate and lie long enough begin to believe their own falsehoods as truth. Consider these : The actions of men are the best interpreters of their thoughts. Thought is the blossom; language the bud; action the fruit behind it. I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who overcomes his enemies, for the hardest victory is victory over self. Remember; out of the abundance of the heart the mouth spe

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road you are trudging seems all uphil, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit. Rest if you must but don't quit. Life is strange with its twists and turns, As everyone of us sometimes learns; and many a failure turns about

Perhaps, you don't need to be convinced, but friendship offers rich rewards. Consider these comments: It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.  With the death of every friend I love a part of me has been buried, but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world.  I guess you have experienced these truths about friendship! We appreciate God for those wonderful gifts. The value of friendship extends beyond emotional closeness and connectedness. Research has shown that lonely people live significantly shorter lives than the general population. Friendship is the springboard to every other love. Friendships spill over onto the other important relationships of life. People with no friends usually have diminished capacity for sustaining any kind of love. They tend to go through a succession of marriages, be estranged from various family members, and have trouble getting along at wo

This early morning news shocked me. One of our neighbours who just got married last year had issues with his wife. Prior to Austin's settling down with Sophia, he had been trading on latest and hottest ladies in town; dark and fair, skinny/fat and slim, beautiful and ugly that at times people wonder if he actually had a choice. He thought that the taste of a real woman is between her legs but NO! Because in spite of the large number of women he was crushing with he was never

Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, not until they have something to forgive. The best moment of avenging ourself is by not resembling him who has injured us. The weak can never forgive, forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Don't carry grudge. While you are carrying the grudge, the other is out there for merry. There is no point in burying the hatchet, if you are going to put up a marker on

Perhaps it's time you had a talk with yourself... The teacher does not bid you enter the house of his wisdom but rather leads you to the threshold of your own mind - so must each of you develop your own knowledge and your own understanding. We need a healthy appreciation of those who exercise the free man's option for excellence. Most people are very careful about how they talk to others. They apparently are

If you want to produce other leaders, you need to mentor them. The mentoring process for developing leaders works in a similar way as this; in hospital emergency rooms, nurses have a saying here it's all about- (watch one, do one, teach one) That simply refers to the need to learn a technique quickly, jump right in and do it with a patient and then turn around and pass it to another nurse. Same occur in mentoring process. It happens when you take potential leaders under your wing, develop them, empower them, share with them how to become persons of influence, and then release them to go out and raise up other leaders. Every time you do that, you plant seeds for greater success. Remember this: Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds you plant. However, one of the greatest things about becoming a person of influence  is that you actually get to see the lives of others change before your eyes. What it takes to become a person of influence- to positively

These will help you know when she needs your reassurance Sudden arguments: for seemingly nothing or from nowhere, your partner (she) presents some sort of conflict. Which will cause you to ask, "where did that come from" perhaps after all you thought everything was just going fine. Trying to escape: you are upset right or you just want time alone. That's normal for males, but when you do this, trying to have your quiet time, she will emerge from nowhere, she will be

Unlocking the secret of how to give your mate emotional security is a lot easier than satisfying her secondary need of financial security. Men tend to think that because they perceive that their relationship is going well, so do their partner. But that's wrong! Men rate their relationships higher than their partners. You need to get with the program. And part of that program is letting her know she is loved. Every man should know that that's the number one assurance his

Let's look at it this way, men are performers who feel they must have an acceptable level of production to be fulfilled. And as a performer, a man is competitive and goal oriented  as well. Also as initiator he is exposed to risk and failure as a result of it, they are often defensive (domineering prone) in his relationships, with his wife in marriage it's rampant. For a man, long term relationships are risky because they expose his weaknesses, thereby making him

Men and women detailed analysis of body differences: the man's pelvis is narrow; the woman's pelvis is broad for childbearing The skin of a man wrinkles later in life than a woman's skin . And men are often physically aroused by visual stimuli; women are usually aroused by touch, caresses and affection . " Click on " .   At times she can be aroused by sensitive words which softens her heart and freezes her body.  Note  at this time carefulness is

Men have difficulty understanding women's intuition, often thinking that women are too sensitive. But there is iota of truth in it. To understand more of what we are talking about, see also " Differences ". Women can better sense the difference between what people say and what they mean. They are more perceptive than men about the meaning of feelings. "women are carriers of feelings" And women are also more perceptive

The construction of the brain, yes let's start with the psychological aspect, the construction of the brain and the way it works. Differences in the way the brain is organized, suggest different ways of thinking and learning. The male brain is specialized- he uses one side for solving spatial problems, the other side he uses for defining a word or verbalizing a problem. The female brain : the female brain is not so specialized for some functions

Beauty can simply be defined as those qualities " unique " that other people find interesting, admirable and attractive, though must not be sedative attraction or seduction, abuse of facial

A reservation for your leadership spot is already on file and the deposit is paid. A place has been secured for you and your leadership spot is already reserved. Leadership is a divine deposit not just a power depot to intimidate others. Every human being was conceived by divine prerogative to deliver a gift of service to humanity. By divine decree or providential decree. Providence has placed in every person a packaged gift that no human gave him

All you need to succeed or get ahead in life is to catch the tail of an idea not the whole detail. This is because you may not always get the detail. I have observed that most people get ahead during the time others waste, the reason why many have lost out in the midst of opportunities is because they have been waiting to get the detail before acting. It is good to know that success ideas are always coming from the world of breakthroughs every passing second