In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first
Believing in them before they succeed: I am sure you have noticed how many people support a sport team as soon as it starts winning. What I am saying is everyone loves a winner. It's easy to have faith in people who have already proved themselves. But yet it is tougher to believe in people before they have proved themselves.
Alright don't worry yourself I will tell you that they key to motivating people to reach their potential is BELIEVING IN THEM BEFORE THEY HAVE
PROVED THEMSELVES.
Try to inculcate the habit of believing in people first before they become successful, and sometimes before they even believe in themselves. Note, no one can give faith unless he has it. In same vain you need faith in others before you can persuade them to believe in themselves.
You can agree with me that some people in your life desperately want to believe in themselves but unfortunately have little hope. Always bear this in your mind, there are no hopeless situations; there are only men and women who have grown hopeless about them.
Again every person has seed of greatness within, even though they may currently be dormant. It is only when you believe in them that you water the seeds and give them the chance to grow.
If you continue to give encouragement through your belief in them, these people will do well in short time.
Most importantly know that each time you put your faith in them, you are giving life-sustaining water, warmth, food and or even light.
Emphasizing their strengths: it's so amazing that we forget this in a hurry; the road to becoming a positive influence on others lies exactly in the opposite direction. The best way to show people your faith in them and to motivate them is to focus your attention in them.
By emphasizing people's strengths, you are helping them believe that they possess what they need to succeed.
Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstances.
Listing their past successes: People need further encouragement to show them you believe in them, so it's not just emphasizing people's strengths.
It's true that not everyone has the ability to recognize pass successes and draw confidence from them. Listing those past successes will go a long way to make them believe in themselves. They will be better able to move into action by making them remember that they have done well in the past and help them see their past victories have paved the way for future success.
Instilling confidence when they fail:
You can see that when you have encouraged people and put your faith in them, and they begin to believe they can succeed in life, they soon reach a critical crossroads.
Though some people are resilient and willing to keep trying in order to succeed, even when they don't see immediate progress, yet others are not that determined anyways, because some will collapse at the first sign of trouble. And one of the ways to do that is to tell them about your past troubles and traumas.
Most of the problems some people have is that they think that anyone that is successful that you have always been that way but I put you right you are wrong to think that way because no one is born "already made" man made himself the way he wishes for himself. They should realize that you have your share of flops, fumbles and failures.
Never let the fear of striking out get in the way. To make them believe in you make them to know that success is a journey- step by step process, not a destination. They will also realize that is better to fail when they realize that you have failed and you have managed to succeed.
Alright don't worry yourself I will tell you that they key to motivating people to reach their potential is BELIEVING IN THEM BEFORE THEY HAVE
PROVED THEMSELVES.
Try to inculcate the habit of believing in people first before they become successful, and sometimes before they even believe in themselves. Note, no one can give faith unless he has it. In same vain you need faith in others before you can persuade them to believe in themselves.
You can agree with me that some people in your life desperately want to believe in themselves but unfortunately have little hope. Always bear this in your mind, there are no hopeless situations; there are only men and women who have grown hopeless about them.
Again every person has seed of greatness within, even though they may currently be dormant. It is only when you believe in them that you water the seeds and give them the chance to grow.
If you continue to give encouragement through your belief in them, these people will do well in short time.
Most importantly know that each time you put your faith in them, you are giving life-sustaining water, warmth, food and or even light.
Emphasizing their strengths: it's so amazing that we forget this in a hurry; the road to becoming a positive influence on others lies exactly in the opposite direction. The best way to show people your faith in them and to motivate them is to focus your attention in them.
By emphasizing people's strengths, you are helping them believe that they possess what they need to succeed.
Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstances.
Listing their past successes: People need further encouragement to show them you believe in them, so it's not just emphasizing people's strengths.
It's true that not everyone has the ability to recognize pass successes and draw confidence from them. Listing those past successes will go a long way to make them believe in themselves. They will be better able to move into action by making them remember that they have done well in the past and help them see their past victories have paved the way for future success.
Instilling confidence when they fail:
You can see that when you have encouraged people and put your faith in them, and they begin to believe they can succeed in life, they soon reach a critical crossroads.
Though some people are resilient and willing to keep trying in order to succeed, even when they don't see immediate progress, yet others are not that determined anyways, because some will collapse at the first sign of trouble. And one of the ways to do that is to tell them about your past troubles and traumas.
Most of the problems some people have is that they think that anyone that is successful that you have always been that way but I put you right you are wrong to think that way because no one is born "already made" man made himself the way he wishes for himself. They should realize that you have your share of flops, fumbles and failures.
Never let the fear of striking out get in the way. To make them believe in you make them to know that success is a journey- step by step process, not a destination. They will also realize that is better to fail when they realize that you have failed and you have managed to succeed.
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