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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Ways you can show commitment in marriage

Recognizing and meeting these needs for one another see "men's needs and women's needs" will mean a stronger marriage and the ability to get through the rocky times that come- though we are focusing on ways you can make a woman feel loved, so I will be skipping over the areas that concern the man, nevertheless I consider and regard their needs just as important as the needs of women.

The woman feels loved when you are willing to help her out. Don't wait to be asked before you can help- just help because asking her won't be really romantic and recognized after all. And always remember to look her into the eyes and say to her, "just another way to say I love you". 

Remember it's scriptural that two are better than one because they have a good return for their labour. For if either of them falls the other one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one that falls when there is no another to lift him up.

Reaching out to help and accepting help get our needs met and creates a special bond with the person we let come near.

My encouragement to you is, always let your wife come near, whether your need is large or small, emotional, physical, spiritual, intellectual or material let her into it. A wife feels loved when you her husband not only trust her but trust her with your emotions, letting her into your problems as well. Mind you, that's not in any way a sign of weakness for him to share with his wife his problems this way, she is your confidant remember! Justification of the scripture, God created the woman to be a helpmate to the man. You have a need and she too has a need.

So, let both needs come together now, shared together by both parties and make both parties happy. You will probably find yourself feeling closer to her also because you both have taken care of each other's needs.

Hush! Romantic I guess, yes, I want your marriage to be the best! 

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