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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first
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How can I overcome confusion?

Most of us are scared of confusion but you are getting it all wrong. Meanwhile don't be scared of confusion instead be ready to accept or embrace it. What you should be afraid of is, "are there really available options?"

Rather you should ask questions such as;
Can I get a nice option that would be decisive, realistic and at same time realizable? 
How can i overcome confusion when it's driving me crazy?

 Don't bury your thoughts in that problem, abide by this rules to overcome your confusion:
Rule 1: You need someone to talk to-Share your problems with a confidant 
Rule 2: Don't just open up your problems to anyone you see around you- the available is not advisable.
Rule 3: Disclose your problems by stating them clearly but succinctly- just hit the nail on the head. 
Rule 4: Pick the valuable points and solutions and the chaff should be left over. 
Rule 5: You have to be wise enough to know good advice.
Rule 6: Don't take every suggestion, option, opinion, or advice given to you as solutions to your problem(s).

 See also "Benefits of confusion"

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