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Many say that love is a magic thing that just happens while, others believe that love is a conscious process—you choose to love or not to love. In what way you are, love is a beautiful thing. Before you can fully love your partner, you must first realize from a biblical point of view why you are to love and what means there are to get to that result. The natural man must have a change of heart before he can make changes toward godly outward obedience. In today's lesson I am going to teach you the secret of growing true love that lasts in a relationship. Read this Why you are different from your partner
A successful life is lived by one who has the right priorities in his life—being obedient to God's Word—and then putting into action what he knows to be true. Love is really acting out in all relationships what you know to be true about the love of God. If you have not made the decision to love and serve our Creator in your life, then seek out a friend or mentor who can lead you through the process. Your understanding of love will dramatically increase. Read also, To be manly and gentle
Love given to another person must first be given to God. It is obvious that God gives us a guideline that we are to love Him first before we are able to truly love anyone else. Men you are to love our Creator first and then you can think of loving your wives or partners. This is also applicable to women. A goodly woman yearns for a man who will worship God. She understands that if you can love God and put Him first in your life, you are then able to sacrificially love her and she will in turn reciprocate your love. Women are to be submissive while men are to love. Here is the secret of growing true love that lasts in a relationship.
The Secrets Of Growing True Love That Lasts In A Relationship#
Keep in touch, communication matters, research has told me that husbands and wives or partners need to be sensitive to the verbal and nonverbal message send across by our spouses and partners. Relating doesn't happen automatically. Growing in love and communication takes a lot of hard, well-planned work. Wisdom, understanding and knowledge in relationship come through many patient hours of relating. When you notice a gap between and breakdown in your communication be very fast enough and do well to notice and cover the line between, to avoid affecting your relationship. Read also, love without communication can't build a relationship
Celebrate your differences as well as your memorable moments together, there is a reward for our labours. What we gain from our efforts are positive attitudes, good relationships, pleasant memories, mutual respect, and depth in character when we learn to tolerate our partners wrongdoings and forgive them earnestly. Dwelling much on your differences or little misunderstanding or quarrel is not the best way to grow true love in a relationship. Love doesn't conform, love doesn't grudge. Love doesn't hold anger for so long. That's why understanding is very important in every relationship. You also need to read, Why love is not enough
Blind-eyes on your partner's weaknesses and celebrate their strengths, One way a woman feels loved (including a man) is when his partner lifts her up with praise. Not only women, everyone just love to hear words that build them. Love is expressed when you stop living life your way and turn to living life our Creator's way. When your marriage or relationship is based on His principles, then your loving leadership as the man builds trust and security for your wife or partner. You always have a mild and appropriate time way to correct and put your partner right, direct and teach her without badmouthing her. You can also help your partner to manage their weaknesses. Read this Steps to temperament adjustment
Express appreciation as well as love on a regular basis, women as tiny babes, look to those around to love them. In fact, all of us spend a good part of our lives earnestly searching for the most rewarding feeling of all—love. Later on in life it is necessary to look for ways to improve our understanding of love. Despite our best efforts, we still have a hard time defining love. Read also, true definition of love and experiencing love. Love is much more than a fleeting emotion. Love is a decision that we consciously make each day, and its presence is revealed in how we treat our spouses and partners and even others. You will agree with me that when we love them we choose what is best for them.
Be the first to say I am sorry, when misunderstanding swipes up, saying "I am sorry" and accepting the fault won't change anything in you but will bring great impact in your relationship. Even when you are right, apologize to keep the love growing and a lasting relationship to blossom.
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