The secret of my strength

[One of the things that defile success is to allow someone else live your life for you] The secret of my strength. I know that in the Part 1 of story for the singles, positive attitude towards life I left you in suspense but in this Part 2 the secret of my strength comes with clarity. Some see you differently from who you are, they may not be wrong but they have not life you own side, they haven't seen life from your life view.

I was always on the side of my view about life but while I was in Secondary School many thought I was living holier than thou. But my belief was and is that one has to live on their footprint just like Living others' footprint. One has to create a route for others to walk through the path.


Once you have a belief and you live on the belief that belief automatically becomes part of your life and makes you and who you are. One's personality is determined by their belief. To learn more about belief on what you believe makes you.

I forbade myself to living on others decision. I was always standing out. Though I must tell you it wasn't a nice experience. My classmates were seeing my behavior as eccentric. I was always the only one left behind during their gist. They would never want me to hear about it. They did not want me to get involve in their conversations because they had nostalgic feelings I was going to brush them down, and calm their morale. They never wanted a dull moment.

Funnily, this attitude didn't make me any better than they were but the pride and fulfillment I deprived from being unique, only the ecstatic feeling of happiness to do my thing different from the way they do sustained me. Originality birthed uniqueness.

I have always believed that one's personality is the way they do things that is different for others. Personality decides our status.

I was determined to achieve high status through my character, positive attitude in doing things having confidence in myself without minding how others see it helped me forge ahead, keeping me ahead and on top. My teachers ascribed me with high status, not because of my academic performance but the way I do my things quite different from the usual way.

The only thing that can sustain someone when living a different life is their ability to stand amist of difficult and complex situations. Courage, boldness, positive attitude and mindset.

Being fully prepared to face anything that comes out of it on the way knowing the challenging path that you are really going to trade in the lonely path which wouldn't be easy.

The secret of my strength 

• Consciousness
• Consistency
• Confidence 
• Perseverance 
• Persistency
• Positivity 
• Endurance 
• Focus

C3P3E has been sustaining me. Whenever my feet tries to slip, C3P3EF reminds me of why I have to be strong and never give up. That is why I made my point of why you should not give up 

The reason why sometimes our attitude flags at a slight storm is because we are discontent and not confident in ourselves. One thing you should have at the back of your head is that everyone needs discomfort to succeed.
No strive no success, no pain no gain. 



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