5 tips a woman needs to improve her relationship

She has 70% responsibility to shoulder in the relationship. Why? She needs the relationship more. Why? This question is expected because we have the general believe that men are the core factor and foundation of every relationship and they need the relationship because they can't do without women by their side to keep them company and warmth but I am here to change this mentality not to confuse you. A man needs the relationship as well as the woman but I am going to give you reason(s) why the woman needs it more. A woman can't do it alone with the support of the man because she needs not just the care and love but the protection she gets from him. The man is the strength of every woman. She is insecure without the man. Therefore, to protect and improve her relationship she needs some tips.

5 tips a woman needs to improve her relationship 

1. Treat him as your king

2. Acknowledge him as your mentor 

3. Love what he loves

4. Make him happy and comfortable around you

5. Walk with him in love

1. Treat him as your king

This is very important in building and improving your relationship. Tell me how you as a woman will feel to see your partner treat and praise you as his queen. You will feel adored? Yes. Same thing is applicable when you treat your partner as a king. Praise him, honour and adore him, respect him and serve him. Serving your partner doesn't cost you a thing, I tell you. Remember women should be submissive to their husbands (men) not the other way. You mustn't expect to be treated like a queen when you treat your partner otherwise. Where is the respect coming from? What you give is what you take. Let him be your lord, not to override and to dethrone him to become overnight queen when you don't recognize and accept he as your king. A man reciprocates your love and respect according to the measure you accord him.

2. Acknowledge him as your mentor 

It is not surprising that most times women have illiterate as partners, that's not a recent development meanwhile that shouldn't make you to see him as a clown, dumb ass. His say should be a command and you must consider and obey. You don't look down on his voice, he tells you want to do. He lectures you with his experience and you don't neglect. You don't banter words with your partner what he says is final. He is your voice, mouthpiece, counselor and the moment you acknowledge this the earlier and better for you in improving your relationship. 

You have to be down to earth even when you are a professor and him as an illiterate businessman, no matter his job and educational background it doesn't deter you from according him the due respect because he still deserves some accolades by accepting to be in that relationship with you, it's a pride, it's not easy because he is your wing, shed, head, protector, without him you are insecure; you are only his backup and supporting tool. Read 15 ways to fix a broken relationship.

3. Love what he loves 

Hey, understand this very well. This has a very deep meaning. By loving what he loves as a woman, it means that you have to be supportive in what he does. Give 80% of your time and show interest, giving him maximum support to build his empire. Yes I am not ignorant of the fact that majority of our women today are career women, having interest to practice their profession and work in their field. But then, as a woman to show him that regard that you value his job, pretend you love his job, when it's hard for you to acknowledge that. Like I always say, life is all about pretence. Don't show a lost interest in what he does. Let his job be priority, show him that you respect his job. Understand me don't abandon your own career. 

Also try to love his hobby. Be a fan of your partner. He needs your support, always cheer him up in his game while he's playing. Learn from him, show interest to learn the game(s) he loves playing. He loves scrabble? What stops you from playing it with him?  Be his playmate. I tell you this is no big deal and I tell you, men are aroused by slightest things and things you feel, look down and find common. 

4. Make him happy and comfortable around you

The way to a man's heart is feeding him when necessary, chatting with him when neccessary, listening as he talks when necessary, allowing him watch his favorite TV when  necessary. see this listening barrier.  Don't make him feel angry and then try to reassure him or to hear you out. You have to know that listening senses are not in optimum level when they are angry. Develop sense of emotional detection. Always propritiate him when the time is right. Make him feel comfortable around you. 

Make the home conducive for him and keep surprising him on daily basis. Men enjoy conducive atmosphere because they need rest after day's work. Men like recreation center, so make your home a comfort zone for his recreation suites to have his lovely moments. Such moments help them to manage their stress and pressure. The fact is that lazy women don't keep home. They end up having family. It doesnt just take a workaholic to serve a good housewife. It takes your ability to keep and maintain a home. That's where good character comes in. 

Some nagging women are the reason for their partner's discomfort. They end up driving their partners out to keeping late nights, clubbing and waving at side chick just to look for comfort. A good, overbearing and understanding woman never loses her partner to one night stands, drinking joints, chalets or absurd places. Taking alcohol and looking at other women out there is the sign of having a careless partner. Avoid this because you are the one to complain of his divided attention and attitude. Bring him close and draw him to yourself. Make his heart feel at peace with you. When you show a man attitude especially men that don't like complaining they end up avoiding nagging to keep off and stay away from home because you make them unhappy and uncomfortable. 

Do this and see your relationship grow in an eye blind. Don't look blindly to this tip but practice it.

5. Walk with him in love

How does she walk with him in love? Some women has the habit of getting things done on their own way without involving their partner who rightly assumes the head. As head he should and is expected to know your plans and actions before you think of implementing. The problem with most women is that they have abusive spirit and neglect their partners. Looking down on them with the motive that she made the  money. But it would surprise you to know that it was same man who established her that  flourished business with record of profit and because the man has a little challenge, she feeds the man and cater for the family abusively and grudgingly. She won't help the family and make her partner happy without raining insults and using abusive words on the man.

She virtually tells him how he is a dumb ass, a woman, a fool who eats from a woman's pocket.

Hey, woman it must not be when the man is broke that you have to abuse him, that is the time you need to show him that you are a wonderful and virtuous woman, sustaining your home with happiness and understanding why you need understanding in relationship will help you a lot. Challenging time is not the time to make your partner look irresponsible and make him behave like a coward that doesn't know his right. It isn't the time to make him feel insecure but the time to get him involved in your activities before taking any action. Read also,

10 ways to building a healthy relationship.

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