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Development of integrity is the inside job

The reason many people struggle with integrity issues is that they tend to look outside themselves to explain any character.
It's true that many people of poor character would not be the way they are if only they had grown in a different environment. Now it's true that our upbringing and circumstances affect who we are, the greater number of choices we make, either for good or bad. Two people can grow up in the same environment, even in the same
household, and one will have integrity and the other won't.

Certainly, you are responsible for your choices. Your circumstances are as responsible for your character as a mirror is for your looks—what you see only reflects who you are. In the ancient times, engravers, and other artisans used a symbol to mark the things they created to show that they were the makers. The symbol that each one used was his character. The value of the work was in proportion to the skill with which the object was made and only if the quality of the work was high was the character esteemed. In other words, the quality of the person and his work gave value to  his credentials. If the work was good, so was the character. If it was bad then the character was viewed as poor.

That same is applicable with us today. Character comes from who we are. But some people would like to be judged not by who they are, but by the title they have earned or the position they hold, regardless of the nature of their character. Meanwhile, their desire is to influence others by the weight of their credentials rather than the strength of their character. But I tell you, credentials can never accomplish what character can.

It's certain that a good reputation is valuable. But a good reputation exists because it's a reflection of a person's character. If a good reputation is like gold then having integrity is like you own the mine. However, worry less about what others think and give your attention to your inner character. It is sure " if I take care of my character, my reputation will take care of itself.

Note this: if you struggle with maintaining your integrity and you are doing all the right things on the outside but you are still getting the wrong results, it means that something is wrong and still needs to be changed on the inside.

See also "integrity the manifestation of character"

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