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In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

Depression, loneliness and guilt

Depression, loneliness and guilt are three enemies of success 

Depression makes you want to withdraw from other people and life in general. This emotion usually comes as a result of being deeply hurt by someone or encountering a specific, difficult situation. Loss, loneliness and guilt are often found in depression, and anger is a strong component. To overcome this emotion, acknowledge the hurt, work through the anger, just focus on God's great works in your past, think about what is true and right.


Loneliness
Solitude is the joy of being alone. Loneliness is the pain of being alone. Everyone needs someone to talk to—that includes to share his or her life with.
When you see a beautiful sunset you can enjoy it, but it is more fulfilling to share it with someone. Are you feeling alone?  (I went out to find a friend but could not find one there. I also went outside to be a friend, and friends were everywhere)—perhaps it's time you went outside and be a friend, then you will discover that your loneliness will disappear.

Guilt
Guilt, remorse, and regret for some past event may still affect your daily living. Although the past can teach lessons about God, our Creator, about life, and about yourself, don't let it haunt you. Heed those lessons and move forward. You can do absolutely nothing to change the past, and trying to disobey is waste of time. Instead, focus all your energy on what you can do to determine the outcome of this moment, this hour this day. Guilt is not a friend for the future, it is an enemy of success.

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