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How to become a positive thinker

Be positive:
It's very easy to be negative. By nature most people seem to go to the negative. It takes mental discipline to react to life in a positive frame of mind. We need wisdom for this to happen in us anyway. But we also have to know that wisdom, understanding and knowledge don't just fall out of the sky. We not only pray we must make the necessary sacrifices to achieve them and accomplish our goal in life.

The only inheritance that a man will leave that has eternal value is his
influence. And you can't be influential when you are not positive. It's only a positive thinker that can influence others. If you are always negative you will end up hiding from your shadow- scaring away from your challenges. It takes a positive thinker to stay in the centre of danger and still tells you that all will be fine.

We don't know exactly what your dream is in life or what kind of legacy you want to leave. But if you want to make an impact, with your positive mindset, your positive influence it's easy for you to become a man or woman capable of influencing others. There is no other way of effectively touching people's lives. And if you become a person of influence, it's certain that a day shall come when other people write down the names of those who made a difference on their lives, perhaps your name could be in their list of acknowledgements.

Positive thinkers are positive influencers and they are always optimistic no matter the situation.

Forget about cannot. Always tell yourself if I can do this, I can do anything. It's only when you are positive that you will think of helping others because a negative mind will always tell you "why are you trying to enrich others by helping them grow and enlarge themselves? What if they turn tomorrow to be greater than you?" the negative mind will always be there just to reduce your influence and their ability to touch others lives.


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