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3 most powerful Tips To Make Her Fall In Love With You In 2 Seconds

To fall in love is all about attraction and your facial look has something to do with it. Besides facial look and attraction other things attract a man to love a woman such as body physique, character and others. On our today's article we are going to give you fabulous tips that would go a long way to enhance your ability to love and make that your long aspired woman be yours forever, and as long as you want.

3 most Powerful Tips To Make Her Fall In Love With You

  1. Talking 
Most of us have little difficulty talking. We are usually willing to talk even when it's not necessary. We are usually willing to give opinion, advice even when it is not requested. Often our communication problems are not just from talking but talking too much. When I was younger there was this guy named Peter, he talks too much though he was smart and intelligent but he was always talking more than necessary whenever he was at the shop and noticed I was the only person around. I like him a whole lot but I couldn't fall in love with him despite his effort and toast . In same vain many a girl doesn't fall for men who talk too much. And one thing I know but we forget is that our mouth can say wonderful words in one second and something hurtful or embarrassing in the next.

Then we have to sieve our words and shape our mouth while or before we talk Wise Solomon once said "a word aptly spoken is apples of gold in settings of silver" meanwhile let no unwholesome proceed from your mouth but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment.

To wrap it up, always be mild and use romantic words to approach or toast a woman.
Use any suitable communication link or channel to get at her. Card messages or letter sent through the mail seems to be more enthusiastic. Everybody likes to get good mail.

        2. Listening

This is a skill most people haven't learned very well. Listening is usually the trouble area instead of patiently hearing what she will say most of us men can hardly wait until they stop talking. To properly listen is to take time to digest the content of the message and let it get under your skin and into your system. When we openly and patiently listen to her we learn from them. The truth is that most men don't think they can actually learn from a woman.

Have you stopped listening already only to hide your face behind the newspaper a magazine or working long and late? This won't do any good to your relationship. Don't be afraid to tell her who you are. Enhance your communication skill by moving to deeper levels. 

Express how you feel about facts, ideas or her judgment about who you really are. Share your feelings with her, make her understand how much you love her be open and honest and involve great risk and make sure to keep calm and listen to her own opinion. Respecting her view and giving her that listening ears garnishes her 'heart of love' read also Who you give your heart

Don't presume or judge as you listen. Don't start shaking your head no before she has got to give you her opinion. Yes, touching is the best way to tell her you are listening to her. The amount of encouragement and affirmation that can be communicated through touch is astounding. Take time to listen to her, yes, women love a man who is willing to listen to them even when what they are saying is unimportant or garbage Read also Why love is not enough. This will help you know the importance of  having good communication in your relationship.

       3. Understanding

One thing is to speak and another is to understand. When you speak clearly and she may listen intently but if they don't understand the message, we haven't communicated very well. The problem is that most times when we speak there is often a difference between what we mean to say and what we really say. And there is a big difference between what we hear and what we think we hear.

So it's always good that you take note of this; there is always a way to help your communication. 
  • Try to repeat to her what you heard and ask them: "is that what you really said?" Whenever you stop to ask that clarifying question you are keeping the channels of understanding wide open and flowing, making it active communication.

Try to evaluate and apply these most powerful 3 tips—talking, listening and understanding whenever you are communicating with her and you would notice overwhelming joy, gladden heart from the tone of her voice and willingness to spend more time with you and all day even. 
To know if she is loving you read also,
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