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The Weeping Lecturer

In the morning, the heavens opened and it began to rain. Bella grabbed her umbrella to get to school, as she walked out of the hostel the first

How domestic violence starts

Domestic violence is the abuse of women's rights and privileges in their homes by their husbands or any like. This is a situation where the views of women are not regarded and men prefer being brutish, treating their wives like dogs worst than slaves.

Funnily, no country is absent in the count when it comes to domestic abuse but the difference is that the western world are sensitized more on this. And the law which restricts women's right against abuse are punishable to those who violate the law. This serves as a deterrent any helps tuned down the volume of domestic violence.  Therefore the practice is at its very low degree unlike Africa where it has become a daily practice and now a cankerworm that has eaten deep into the image or fabric of Africa. The virus is worst than cervical cancer.

See also, "stages of domestic violence"

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