How incompetency causes divorce

Not really poor communication but incompetency causes divorce. Any doubt about it, yeah? Alright! Let's start by saying that any marriage which is not rooted with love is incompetent because love is foundation and for there to be love there must be some strong common qualities each other possesses that can't be explained by either, so those qualities are what what trigger love. Agreed? Okay.

Any marriage that has no rapport in the spouses relationship would definitely have a loophole. What is poor understanding all about? Poor understanding is the inability to ejaculate meaning of things. Some have this misconception all the time about everything including actions of others. There are some men who don't see anything good in women that's poor understanding. But this is the problem of women. 99% of women who don't have this rose coloured lenses, don't see anything good in others. Everything about others is wrong. They are good at saying bad things about others. With this kind of people as spouse, you would not escape domestic violence in your home because of the incompatibility. Such woman will always find fault in the husband. See also, "Why domestic violence or abuse?"

Poor understanding resorts to nagging wife: if you meet a woman with low understanding in everything, her social life is poor and doesn't match with you. Most men today would want a woman who flirts for them but if you have such who doesn't believe that no matter what they should at all time be romantic for him, they don't compromise in their belief. The man will not be happy and he probably spends most time out returning home ready to punch her aa soon as she complains because he finds her disgusting and irritating.

Low understanding causes much damage. Any man whose woman is naive with low understanding, he may not want certain things they inclined secrecy, things they are always too reticence about divulging but as a woman who has low key brain she didn't see it in his view she reveals the secret, he ends up hearing it outside, what would the man do? The man who lacks patience or is not accommodating will not want to understand it is an act of ignorance resorts to hitting her.

Many women have turned to punching bag today because of their low understanding. See also, "what you need to understand about men" besides the needs of men they need your understanding and reasoning. Men need women with polished brain whose advice can turn nothing to something not self-centred women who would be a complete liability to him. Men don't like women who are too demanding. Even if he has the money, he believes that your "productive thinking" and creative ideas add value to his "business or work-life" than anything else.

A person with low understanding can actually be supported. We shall discuss how to manage our low understanding ability.
But incompetency and incompatibility are agents if divorce.
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