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Why Women Find It Easier To Be Open Than Men



It is not the responsibility of one person to make another person happy—each of us must find our own happiness from within. The practical side of life is when she knows she is
loved. She will be open and honest in her relationship to him.

When there is this kind of openness, partners can give their spouses the truth. We don't really have to be suspicious of any question that our mate might ask. This transparency allows honest communication. Whatever your mate asks you, you can be honest. Then pillow talk is neccessary and that's why we encourage partners to have pillow talk because it encourages you to be open and honest and share. Your partner has a right to your innermost thoughts. As a couple you get to know each other better than any other person knows you or your partner. When a person knows you, they know the good and bad, that's what it means to be "one".

Women usually find it a lot more easier to be open than men. Men can work toward becoming "tough and tender"  I have found that when women give their partners a vote of confidence and don't always have a hidden agenda, the men feel more freedom to share their thoughts, dreams, and feelings. You men tend to be more cautious and hold back important parts of your lives until you feel safe.


Here is an important truth you should know

Your partner (she)will be more willing to go along with your dreams, plans and thoughts if she can depend on and trust you because you are open and honest and loving. When you honestly communicate with her, she has security and confidence in your future plans.

A woman's emotional stability is strengthened when she can trust her man's words. As a man of good and notable character, your partner will become secure. A secure woman (wife) is willing to love... and express that love. 

Meanwhile, present yourself to her (your wife) as you really are. No disguise, no deceit. That way she will better understand who you really are and what you say. 

Relationship built on openness and honesty lasts forever.


See related posts 

15 ways to fix a broken relationship 

10 ways to know if she truly loves you

10 ways to win the heart of your partner 

How to make her fall in love with you

10 things you should do to have a lasting relationship 

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